Hiya, Bob!
I'm glad you're feeling more upbeat about it all. It sounds like some healing has taken place. That scar has a pretty good scab on it, yes? I couldn't see any wet, oozing spots.
Sounds like you and your doc have reached some sort of rapport, and that is good. When the time comes to get those stitches out, you might ask him for a bullet to bite to pay him back for the "suck it up" remark
The new rules for Tylenol are a reflection of the fact that other medications can contain Tylenol. Percocet is one of them. You shouldn't take more than 4000mg Tylenol from any source, including what is in your Percocet. You can either do the math or go with the 3000mg rule.