Hi WB for some reason I have missed this thread, so my 2p all at once...
I know I can't expect to be back to my 20 year old self with my knees, but I want to at least be able to go on vacations to Disney World, hike in the mountains, and maybe do some light skiing again.
I am now just on three years and my knees are as good as they can really be, there's no reason you shouldn't do all the things mentioned.
I have a question about what does it feel like with both your knees replaced. I mean is it like having your old young knees back, or is it different, what does it feel like when you walk on them. does it hurt, like my arthritic knees do, or is there no sensation at all.
The arthritic pain is gone
on the very first day, that awful sharp pain deep in the knees. All the rest of your leg will hurt, mind...
Walking continues to improve; after a year you'll think it's wonderful, but you just get more and more used to it.
But I want to be able to hike, mountain bike, light skiing, play tennis and do all of my photography stuff including weddings again.
Tennis is the only one I'd worry about. The standard wisdom is that it's
impact that can cause problems, so running and twisting around not so good.
I plan to start working out on my quads and legs extensively and also do upper body strengthening to help me with my arms for support.
I'd concentrate on the upper body, that's what you'll need in recovery.
I had BTKR and like Tim I think it's a fine way to go. However, in the grand scheme of things having them done only a month apart is 'almost' bilateral. What I mean is that four weeks is a short time in the recovery period, which is a year at least (you can see my own recovery from my sig, below).
I'd encourage your surgeon to go for the minimum gap. This is because - as you've already realised - one is really just 'marking time' between the two procedures.
Losing weight will make recovery easier, you haven't so much to haul about, so will put less stress on those recovering knees. When you have recovered you'll be able to do more or less what you like - with the caveat about running - so that further loss will be less difficult than now.
Going back to work too soon is often an mistake. I know that after four weeks I was still mentally as well as physically challenged. Take as much time as you can - post TKR is the one time in life where being very self-absorbed is the way forward. Sitting watching telly is not being an idle bum, it's a proactive structured recovery programme. That's not a complete joke, either.