Dawn, my mother was that way too. She was kind to everyone, and interested in what they were doing. Even the day she lapsed into a coma, the last words I heard her say was when she looked up at my niece, smiled, and asked how she was doing. I sometimes was grumpy with her because I felt confined. But yes, absolutely, it was an honor to see that her life was as good as it could be these last five years that I've managed her affairs.
When I felt certain my mom was dying, I put out the word for people to come visit, and some did and had wonderful visits. I have a video of her with her first greatgrandchild in which she asks the parents if they'll have more. They said "as many as god will let us have." My mother's reply was, "Sometimes I think he forgets to count." I went through her address book while she was in a coma, located old friends, and some chose to speak to her. I'd hold the phone to her ear, and by the movement of her hands and eyes, I knew she heard them.
Anyhow, late surgery appointment (2:40) so hopefully starvation won't affect my voting!!