Hi Glazed ... you did go through the mill a bit, but I am so glad you are now home and coping. You can post anything on here - whining, questions, sooking, positive things, negative things - we are interested in them all and there will always be someone who has had the same thing or the same concerns or can tag someone they know who has.
I am at 15 weeks today and can't believe it has gone so fast. I was so much like you (still am to a certain extent) in that if something didn't improve in a couple of days, I was worried there was something wrong with me. I am slowly, oh so slowly, learning the patience that recovery from PKR or TKR needs. You are so much younger than me and I can only imagine how much more impatient I would have been at 43. I don't know that I had a lack of appetite, more a very laid back attitude to it - I either eat or I don't - no problem. It does get better as the stronger pain meds are weaned back and as you start to get around a bit more.
I was the opposite of you and a few others on the forum. I could raise my leg straight up in the air about the third day after the op - while still in hospital BUT I couldn't bend and still at 15 weeks, my bend has not reached 90degrees, but gosh the leg raises are still great. I actually attribute this to all the bike riding and bike classes I did at gym up until the op. I think my quads were particularly strong from that.
Most of what you are concerned about is normal, but when you are going through it for the first time, of course it is very abnormal and you get concerned, stressed and sometimes agitated by it. Just jump on here and someone will help you out. On my thread there are so many sooking posts and posts where I sound positive and "
yes, I'm going to be more patient from now on ... more laid back etc etc", but the very next post is "
Why, why, why isn't it happening YET. It still isn't happening - what's wrong with me".
All in all, you seem to be doing very well and your flexion is tremendous, so take comfort in that and try to wait for those quads to wake up. I hope they give you some warning before they do though. I would hate to think you would be lying there all innocently and giving a huge effort to lift it and it flies straight back up over your head.
I sincerely hope everything goes well for you and that the quads are awake and firing really soon.
Take care and be kind to yourself ...
Ellen