Tabbycat
post-grad
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2016
- Messages
- 1,045
- Age
- 65
- Location
- Newport, Wales
- Gender
- Female
- Country
United Kingdom
I'm sorry you are feeling so low at the moment. It's horrible, even though you know it's to be expected at some point. I don't think anyone really prepares you for the mental and emotional side of all this. We are neck and neck in lots of ways, date of surgery, age, where we are in recovery. I feel I should not need both crutches now, but feel weak and unsteady without them. I've also have quite intense pain at times and can only take Paracetamol. If you need the Oxy for pain relief I say keep taking it. My physio wants me to do several exercises to try to increase my ROM and I try to do them, but they hurt and I don't know if I am doing more harm. Im exactly two months post op today and sometimes feel I have been through the same week eight times and am not much further on. I wish I had a magic wand and could make it all better for all of us!
Hang in there, we'll try to support each other.
Love, Tabby xxx
Hang in there, we'll try to support each other.

Love, Tabby xxx
Swimming is the best therapy for me, both physically and mentally, and I always sleep well after a good swim.