Tramadol is a good option for pain control. It is something many doctors use as a step down medication from hydrocodone or OxyCodone. I’m not sure what article you read on the internet about this medication, but it was incorrect. This is one reason we caution folks about doing internet searches. You really have to check out the sources. If you haven’t tried it, I suggest you contact your GP and see if it’s an option for you. It works best when taken on a set schedule throughout the day and night so that medication is always in your system. Then, as things get better, you can begin extending the time between doses or even alternating it with doses of 1000mg of Tylenol. It is best to wean off of Tramadol so that you don’t go through any discomfort.
It is possible since you’ve had such extreme and constant pain since your surgery, that you may have soft tissue problems that are contributing to your pain and swelling. When muscles are over stressed and tense, they don’t function as well as when they are loose and supple. Muscle relaxants work on this, but I have found from my own personal experience that a specific type of therapy - pressure point massage - can do wonders. You may have to look around a bit to find a therapist who is skilled in this type of treatment, but it will be worth it. Muscle imbalance can result from the pain and from not walking properly over time. It is my feeling that this pressure therapy is the best way to address the problem and get it resolved.
I do encourage you to not try and work through this on your own. These problems can become chronic if not addressed early on and we don’t want that to happen. Unfortunately even great surgeons are sometimes woefully untrained in some of the issues that can arise with pain management for patients. Often it’s better to work with a good therapist and your GP to get the job done.
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