Had my 6 week check up this week with the OS. It all went well and doctor was pleased. He gave me an A+, continue to do what I am doing which is ADL, at this point. He said it will just keep getting better on its own, nothing special is needs to be done. If it hurts, don’t do it, basically.
We had a full day yesterday as we left the house at 6:30 AM, went out for breakfast and a few errands before the doctors appointment. It was a 1.5 hour drive to the doctors office, near our old neighborhood. We spent the rest of the day in NJ doing things we wanted to do. Got home at 5:00 PM, unloaded the car, back out for dinner. Once home, took a shower & in jammies. Soon after, a neighbor called asking to come over for a bit. My husband is on our HOA board and another board member needed to talk to him, he’s also a friend, so it was a couple of hours talking.
Now it’s getting ready for Christmas. Our shopping is done, decorations up except needing to decorate the tree. Need to finish the tree and wrap gifts. Having a difficult time as I’ve said my dad passed away 1/1/23. However, what I didn’t say was that it was suicide. He was 87, he was living alone in a single family house and doing well until last August. His health started to fail and he did not want to go into assisted living, refused 24/7 care and refused to be a burden to us. He wouldn’t have been but that was his thinking. He moved to FL after my mom passed away. He had been 10 minutes away from us (NJ) and then to FL. I talked to him every single day at least one, couldn’t reach him NYs Day. Had a wellness check done after trying to reach neighbors. Police came to our house to let us know he had passed. Packed suitcases and started to drive to FL, as did our son and daughter in law, grand dog, too! Let’s just say it was horrible as we didn’t know how he passed and didn’t find out until 1/3 due to the holidays. It was treated as a crime scene at first and the only one to had authority to tell us was off until 1/3. We were told to not go into the house until we had authorization. I am an only child, so all decisions were on me. My husband, son & daughter in law were awesome and we were all on the same page with what needed to be done.
Anyway, enough of all of this. We will get through it all as a family. We also have our grandson to be to look forward to.
My knees are doing what they need to be doing and thankfully no major concerns throughout. I have needed a lot of dental work this year and that is nearly done. 2024 will be a better year!