Good that you are going to try for help, especially in the mid-week time period when things are worst for you. I'd ask my surgeon's office for his directions about when you can go into a pool. Hope you do get that permission to drive. I was driving at 6 weeks, so maybe you'll be at the wheel soon. Being at the pool sounds like it will be fun and social for you and your children. I'd be really careful, though, about older children watching 5 year-olds at a pool. I'd want my eyes on them at all times, too! Sorry if this sounds intrusive - I'd just hate for an accident to happen and have the older kids feel responsible.