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I'm 40 years old and rely pretty heavily on my mommy <3
There's nothing wrong with that. It's great that you have a mom that can help you out when you need it most.
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I'm 40 years old and rely pretty heavily on my mommy <3
That's OK. On this recovery journey, take help wherever you find it.I'm 40 years old and rely pretty heavily on my mommy
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United StatesHonestly, if I were asked if I could go back in time and do this all over again would I do it... I think I would end up saying I don't think so.
Honestly, I do not recommend this. It will irritate your IT band and cause pain.Yesterday I did side stepping in my kitchen
Exactly!It does seem that the harder my physical therapist made me push (or pull technically), the more backwards I felt like I was going.
I strongly suggest you cancel them all. You don't need any of it - you know that. You've already said as much in previous posts. Don't be fearful. Both Celle and I are living proof that these surgeries get a good outcome without all that.it's been decided that I will go to my physical therapy appointment on Monday, but I will be canceling the rest of the appointments for next week as well as changing how many appointments I have through the rest of February.
I sure hope that ends up being the case. I've been so frustrated that it's a little hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.Hopefully 6 months from now when you are hiking with your son you will look back on this time as just another bump in the road. Hang in there.
Really?? Okay then! *tosses that exercise away* So just the heel slides then?Honestly, I do not recommend this. It will irritate your IT band and cause pain.
My only concern with canceling all of them is that if I do eventually decide to go through with having the right knee done (cause it does need done even if I'm currently saying "nope, not gonna happen"), the ortho won't do it because I refused physical therapy. Can he legally do that?I strongly suggest you cancel them all. You don't need any of it - you know that. You've already said as much in previous posts. Don't be fearful. Both Celle and I are living proof that these surgeries get a good outcome without all that.
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LOL! Heel slides as per this instruction Heel slides and how to do them. However, I didn't even do them! Not a single one for either knee!Really?? Okay then! *tosses that exercise away* So just the heel slides then?
I agree with Punpkln. He's unlikely to remember and he won't remember especially if you don't tell him! There's no law against that !My only concern with canceling all of them is that if I do eventually decide to go through with having the right knee done, the ortho won't do it because I refused physical therapy. Can he legally do that?
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United StatesThank you for this. I really hope this ends up being the caseAprilM,
Assuming you have a great outcome, the OS is not going to remember what you did or did not do. He will only know that you did well, and it is OK to proceed.
This is how I've been doing them. PT wanted me doing them using a strap on my foot and pulling, but I refuse to do that at home. I'd rather use my leg muscles to assist with this than pull with a strap. It hurts less letting my leg muscles do it.LOL! Heel slides as per this instruction Heel slides and how to do them. However, I didn't even do them! Not a single one for either knee!
My ex-husband surprised me this morning with two ice packs that have sleeves with straps :D He was not pleased with the homemade packs because one of them leaked all over my bed yesterday afternoon. It seriously looked like my puppy peed in the middle of my bed but rubbing alcohol LOLProbably the least expensive way to secure an ice pack is with an ace bandage wrap. I've done that, too. Just make sure ice is not directly on your skin.
Thank you! Along with everything everyone else has said, this gives me much hope!Ok, I'll jump in with my non-bending story that shows the ROM is there all along...after my infection surgery the OS put me in an imbolizer and said no bending for 2 weeks. Two weeks turned into just over a month. My OS kept reassuring me the knee will bend when we tell it to bend. A month of elevating, icing and walking around the house and to appointments, when he says I can begin to bend it does feel very tight and stiff, (went back on pain meds at that point) but it bends. He ordered non-aggressive bending and within a month I was riding a recumbent bike and a few weeks after that I was back to work teaching first grade half days. Gentle is all you need and if it hurts don't do it.
I'm not certain but I think this is why my PT had me doing side stepping. I do have muscle weakness in my hip and upper thigh. I try and try to do even a single leg lift, only to have nothing happen.My PT gave me the side step exercise--I think for weak muscles (hip abductors or something) but not to do to the point of pain. And these various exercises were added gradually, not all at once.
I need your PT instead of the one I've got LOLLet your body be your guide. If it aggravates things to do an exercise, reduce or stop doing them. My PT said in general with exercises, if it's still hurting after an hour or two you know you did too much and to scale back.
I was finally, FINALLY, able to sleep on my right side last night. It was a matter of getting enough between my bed and the inside of my right leg. Sleeping on my left side still hurts my knee. Sleeping on my tummy isn't yet an option cause holy **** does that hurt. I'm not fond of sleeping on my right side (my body is weird) but at least I was able to finally not sleep on my back.Have you tried sleeping off your back yet?
I'm a tummy sleeper and it took me less than a week to work out I could still do that!
My mum died almost 10 years ago, I miss her every day. I've especially missed her in the last 9 weeks!