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Revision TKR Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie

Had a several landmarks happen to us lately. First, my daughter graduated with her Masters Degree in Education Administration on August 4th...maybe she will be the principal one day.

Had to drive to Austin, Texas for the graduation and had a very theraputic talk with Dave and the kids. I am finally letting go, and coming to terms that I am not a long distance runner anymore. I will be ok with it because more than anything I don't want to damage my knee. Maybe a 5k here and there just for fun. But...I finally got my nerve up and met up with two different cycling clubs. One on a Saturday and rode 15 miles and met some very nice people, then the next day Sunday did a real fun ride with more wonderful people for 35 miles. So I rode 50 miles in one weekend. I liked it a lot!

Next landmark is that after 6 months and one week, Dave went back to work. He has worked 5 days now. Just part days at the office and some work from home. It is all coming together now. We had our 42nd wedding anniversary yesterday which we really were thankful for since I almost lost him in February.

Been working a LOT! Hope to slow down soon, now that Dave is back to work! I need to get to reading and replying on Bonesmart!! All my best to all of you!
 
Oh, Bonnie, I am so happy for you. Acceptance of things over and done that were so much a part of everything is very difficult. And now a new passion to take its place--super. And Dave back at work and improving--what a God send. A graduation and an anniversary. LIFE IS GOOD!
 
Bonnie,
Happy Anniversary and congrats on your daughters graduation. But the best news is the Dave is doing so well now, may all things come together for you in the way that you want.
 
Glad you're getting into biking, Bonnie. I would love to do THR, but my quad muscle fibers aren't the right type!

I started teaching again; still having some problems with balance. What I miss the most from not teaching high impactvJazzercise is the endorphin rush. Guess I could eat A LOT of chocolate instead!
 
Bonnie,
Thanks for the great up date, happy to hear how well Dave is doing after all you have gone through.
 
PooShay said:
Glad you're getting into biking, Bonnie. I would love to do THR, but my quad muscle fibers aren't the right type!

I started teaching again; still having some problems with balance. What I miss the most from not teaching high impactvJazzercise is the endorphin rush. Guess I could eat A LOT of chocolate instead!
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PooShay, I miss that endorphin rush as well. I do think I got some of it though on that 35 mile bike ride. I actually felt like I accomplished something! I also eat chocolate...Dove Dark Promises with and without almonds! 3 per day, I limit myself! I am glad to hear that you are teaching again, at least you are back in your element albeit low impact :-)
 
I cycled 35 miles this morning with a great bunch of people. I think I will like this biking...now, if my padded shorts were a little more padded I would be happier! My knee feels better after cycling 35 miles then when it does after I run 3 miles. I am thankful for what I can do now with no pain!
 
[Bonesmart.org] Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie
[Bonesmart.org] Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie
Our Bonnie pedaling happily off into the sunset with a happy knee. What more could you want? Good for you, Bonnie.
 
Bonnie, I am so happy to hear that things are on a definitely positive path for you. I remember one of my doctors telling me years ago that aging gracefully was all about compromise. At the time, he was talking about my having to settle for bi-focal contact lenses that allowed me to see, but not as well as I had when I was younger. I have found that little tidbit of advice applicable to many, many situations as I get a little more "seasoned."

It is wonderful to hear that you are enjoying cycling. It's a wonderful exercise and hopefully you will come to love it as much as running.

I'm also thrilled to hear that Dave is doing so well. Your latest anniversary must have been especially sweet for you both.

Good times are ahead.....enjoy yourself, my friend!!! You deserve it!
 
referee54 said:
Welcome to the Bonesmart Cycling club---those padded shorts do make a difference. I also use something called "chamois Butter" that is a cream tht helps out on nice long rides, too!

https://coachlevi.com/cycling/chamois-butter-exposed/
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Thanks Tim for the tip on Chamois Butter. I think I will have to get me some. Good link that you sent me, it looks to be very informative for a rookie like me!
 
Jamie said:
Bonnie, I am so happy to hear that things are on a definitely positive path for you. I remember one of my doctors telling me years ago that aging gracefully was all about compromise. At the time, he was talking about my having to settle for bi-focal contact lenses that allowed me to see, but not as well as I had when I was younger. I have found that little tidbit of advice applicable to many, many situations as I get a little more "seasoned."

It is wonderful to hear that you are enjoying cycling. It's a wonderful exercise and hopefully you will come to love it as much as running.

I'm also thrilled to hear that Dave is doing so well. Your latest anniversary must have been especially sweet for you both.

Good times are ahead.....enjoy yourself, my friend!!! You deserve it!
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Thank you Jamie for all of the nice words. It has taken me a very long time to come to terms with this, but already I am looking forward to next Saturday and riding with the group again. When I rode 35 miles I felt like I had really done something for the first time in a long time. It would be like running about 17 miles! If I can't run long distance anymore I will certainly cycle long distance. When I work up to a 50 mile ride it will be like running a marathon, because you have to cycle twice as far to equal the amount to running.

Yes, very nice anniversary, since we almost didn't have one. Dave has survived 6 days of work now, and goes to PT twice a week to continue getting strong. Today he washed both of our cars, hosed out the garage and driveway. More work than he has done at once for a very long time. Me, I worked today from 12-5 which is the start of 6 days in a row for me to work but will be off Saturday, Sunday, Monday of next week...can't wait for that!
 
bottomshollow said:
[Bonesmart.org] Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie
[Bonesmart.org] Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie
Our Bonnie pedaling happily off into the sunset with a happy knee. What more could you want? Good for you, Bonnie.
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Thank for for the nice words and encouragement...and finding me a nice cycling picture too!
 
Wow, that is fantastic. :yay: Congratulations on your accomplishments and may you have many peddling adventures!
 
On Thursday of this week, Sherry aka Cflower came to see me at my place of work. I told her to come any Thursday or Friday so we could meet and she did. I had another employee take our picture. So nice to have a face to go along with the name! Enjoy!! Our picture is below.
Cflower in pink shirt on left and RunA42K aka Bonnie in black shirt on right!
[Bonesmart.org] Never give up, keep trying, don't settle - that's me, Bonnie
 
Hi Bonnie, I'm new to the group and just finished reading your journey to a better life. I was so sorry to learn about the loss of your sweet sweet Molly. My wife and I have two English Springer Spaniels and we love them with everything we've got. Our thoughts and prayers to you.

You've been an inspiration to me. My RTKR is almost here, 8am on Sept 4th. Thanks for sharing your journey and congratulations on a better, more healthy life. All the best to you.

Tom
 
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