Down time is giving me pause to reflect on life.
Coming of age comes late to some of us.
My parents have passed on for many years already, my mom 22 years ago and my dad 15; I have lived far away from my extended Italian family in the US for more than 25 years.
Many times the last few years I have been confronted with bad news from friends, colleagues and acquaintenances - health issues, deaths, accidents, mental health issues, relationship challenges.
In other words, I have been confronted very often with reason after reason to take pause in all the things which are good and right in my world. To stand still in a bubble of pleasure, feel good moment and bask in that feeling. And to tell others about their part in it.
Very heavy lecturing
In any case, my bilat journey is bringing me many more of these moments and I am really getting inspired by it, also opening up more to others. Going through this experience with our three young adults as caregivers is a unique and enriching experience for all of us. Good to see them dividing tasks and giving feedback and achieving a balance.
I am surprised and grateful to find myself in such an idyllic state on Day 9.