Hello Vinny

Welcome to BoneSmart and recovery! Thanks for joining us.
I am sorry you're feeling down at times, please understand that it's normal. You are likely feeling dependent on others, dealing with discomfort / pain, boredom and feeling vulnerable. If you're feeling neglected by your daughter, consider phoning a friend or another relative. I am sure someone will enjoying visiting with you over the phone, or stopping by if you extend the invitation.
Hopefully the urinary retention is a result of the opioids or anesthetics and will regulate soon.
When you all transition from walker to one crutch?
This will vary from person to person. Like you, I was eleven days post op when I began transitioning to a cane from the walker. Some use a walker for a lot longer and there is no shame since we come to joint replacement in different conditions, many way worse than others. You will know when the time is right, don't allow anyone to push you if you're not feeling comfortable, or ready.
When did you guys quit the opioids
I only took three or four tabs and was done on Day Three, mainly because I didn't like the way it made me feel.
I did well with Extra Strength Tylenol and pretty much constant icing.
As far as the compression socks go, many do wear them, but it does seem they are prescribing them less and less these days. Possibly you need a larger size? You may want to check with your surgeon's office to be sure he is okay with you not using them. If you're staying reasonably mobile you'll likely be okay without them. Read the Activity Progression for TKR, under No. 5 to get an idea of the activity you can safely engage in at this point of the healing process.
Possibly you can arrange for your lady friend, other friends / family, or your daughter to stop over for coffee and dessert for an hour or two on different days so you don't feel as lonely. If that's not a possibility, try to occupy your mind to the best of your ability, it will help with the blues. Watch tv or a Netflix series, play online games, read a book, plan a vacation for when you're feeling up to it, text or email friends, see if someone can take you for a short car ride, listen to uplifting music, or come here and update your thread! you can always visit our Social Room for some entertainment. Here is a link -
Social Room
I will also leave a link on how to use the forum in case you have questions -
How To Use This Forum
Wishing you lots of comfort as you continue healing. A peaceful evening to you and your fur buddy Salem!
