My appointment is March 13. I honestly don’t expect much from my surgeon. I really don’t even want to bring up the issues with him, but I should at least let him know that not everyone has a text book recovery.
And maybe, truly, there won’t be anything he can do and we just have to wait it out.
At most appointments his assistant comes in first to talk to me about how I’m doing. She’s not a PA, more like his personal secretary. She’s always been very nice to me, and even called me the Friday evening before my Monday surgery, just to check on me to see how I was doing.
At my 7 month check up I told her how I’d had a set back at 4 months post op, for almost 2 months, due to that visit to my friend’s house and the struggle with the low toilet all weekend. I told her some things I was still struggling with 3 months later. I asked her if that was normal to have struggles at 7 months and she said no. I didn’t believe her, I’d read enough Bonesmart to know some people do have more struggles than others and recovery takes a year. Her first response was “did you go back to doing your exercises?” I told her no, I didn’t.
I thought it was interesting that she said “go back to” and not “still”. No one in that office ever implied I could stop the exercises. ( which I did at about 4 weeks post op)
But anyway, she was not as understanding as I thought she would be. I was hoping she’d say it’s a long recovery with ups and downs. She did not. It made me feel like they only like patients who don’t have any problems. (like there are any of those!)
My surgeon was surprisingly understanding that day about my set back.
So, as usual I am already tense about this upcoming appointment and I expect them look at me like I’m crazy. Or disappointed that I am one of THOSE patients.