Howdy Miss Diminuata,
Thank you for sharing your recovery and camaraderie of being an over-achiever also.

I know that everyone is different and what works for many doesn't always work for everyone. I have read all of the articles. Some I've read twice or three times. There is quite a bit of awesome information there.
I don't know if you have read through all of my thread, but I have been driving since 2 weeks after surgery. I stopped taking opiates 12 days after surgery. I didn't like what the medication was doing to my system. I forgot to mention this before in my thread, but my blood pressure dropped dangerously low when taking the opiates. One time when the RN was at my house she couldn't get a BP reading. She tried again then found a really low reading. I pushed my PT way too hard on opiates because I wasn't feeling the discomfort that would make me stop doing the stretches and exercises when I should have stopped. I just pushed to where I felt discomfort which would be pain without the opiates. I was overdoing it. This excess push during PT kept my knee swollen even when elevating and icing many times a day. I decided to stop the medication and my system decided to work normally (BP and potty). I felt the push to discomfort without masking the pain while not on opiates helped reduce some of the swelling. Opiates work for most after TKR, but not for me after a short while.
I have stiffness and soreness which is considered pain on this site, but I don't consider it pain. This is where I personally differ with this site. It may be correct for most, but it isn't for me. I still have some swelling which I am told will stay for a couple of months or so. I have decided to take Tramadol at night for the discomfort so that I can GET SOME WELL NEEDED SLEEP!

The cap lock is not directed towards you. They are here because I haven't slept more than 4 hours at one time since surgery 6 weeks ago. I have napped some and often tossed and turned to find a comfortable position until I decided to get out of bed. I feel for my poor husband who has had to endure my tossing and turning.
Trust me, this TKR floored me also!

I can't not lie about that. I was all about getting therapy done and getting back to normal in 4 weeks. I was going to enjoy 2 weeks pain free then go back to work all refreshed! HAHAHA!

That didn't work!!!

I have had a few setbacks, but have picked myself back up. When I had setbacks I did rest, iced and elevated. I learned the ice and elevation thing 35 years ago. I am able to do more than others who have had TKRs at 6 weeks. I am quite blessed. I truly wish I had a magic wand to wave over the people who are having problems so that they wouldn't have the pain and problems they are having. I would even wave it over myself in regards to sleeping.
I wish nothing but the best for you in your recovery. I wish there was something I could do to help you. I can offer encouragement and an ear for when things are not going your way. I will catch up on your thread.
Take care!
