@lovetocookandsew hello! I jumped back several pages in your thread to get familiar with your story and oh my goodness, your swelling has been rather tenacious, hasn't it? I'd love to give you some tips for self help but am so happy you have an appointment with a MLD ( manual lymph drainage) specialist. This person will most likely address many areas and it should help get things moving.
Since I could see some of your pictures, it appears you have significant swelling above your knee so the first thing to address is to get your upper body, which is the most important part of our lymph systems, primed and working.
So lets start with this:
While lying on your back with your feet elevated-- try taking big, deep breaths.. our bodies have a large amount of lymph nodes deep in our abdomen and "priming" them with deep breathing will help create a drawing (suction) effect. You can also help things along by placing your hand on your naval area.. take a deep breath, enough that you will see your hand move and then as you breathe out, press gently, yet firmly down on your naval area and repeat this exercise at least 5-6 times. You can start with gentle pressure and increase pressure as your stomach softens and relaxes. this is all to your comfort level!!
Then please remain lying down and place your right hand over your inguinal area, you know, where your thigh meets up with your trunk of your body? Keeping your hand flat and soft,, start pressing your full hand into the inguinal nodes that are located there and with an upward, semi circular motion massage up towards your midline- where your naval is located. I hope this makes sense.. it's really easy to do.. it's not with your fingertips, use your full hand and part of your hand will be on your upper thigh area.. I would stay in this area and gently massage for at least a minute or two.
Then return to doing the deep breathing exercise then repeat the groin/inguinal exercise. Please take the time to do the left side too. Like I said, it's easy to do and you can't hurt this area but keep your hand soft and flat, no harsh fingertips jabbing.
Let's see how that goes first? Do this 3 times a day and see how you feel.. I'd love to hear that you notice you are visiting the bathroom more! But it may take more patience and time.
I'd love to do one more thing but lets wait until you do this above exercise today and tomorrow?