I had kidney problems as a child, kidney reflux or something? I can never remember the proper name. I've had neurological problems since I had a fall at 17 - still undiagnosed, and still annoying me. I have a great deal of muscle pain/spasms and now I don't know if it's related to AVN or neuro-? Doctor's aren't really bothered about finding out what it is, and I'm fed up fighting them, from the first symptom they prescribed NSAID's - my stomach protests greatly now.
That is a very good mantra
Poppet can I adopt it? I'm sure I remember mum saying something like that before. Mum is (hopefully) planning on coming to stay with me once I have my op, and my boisterous black Labrador will stay at her house with dad. As for trying to stop the cat laying ontop of me at night, that will be a challenge.
Mum is a retired nurse, who spent most of her career in a rehab ward for the elderly, she isn't sure if and how caring for someone differs in age,
Josephine could you perhaps answer this please?
Feeling really quite scared, having all this hanging over my head, one hurdle at a time though (if only) - mainly speaking to my G.P tomorrow about asking for the hospital I mentioned before. As much as I'm trying to stay positive it's hard, I keep thinking of 'what could go wrong'. I'm also finding myself downloading tv programmes and films to put on my tablet to take with me, I'm not sure if that's a silly idea? I've not even got a 'date' yet. I just feel if I have something to, not necessarily watch post op but listen to it would pass the time between physio/sleep.
Again, thank-you everyone, you are all fantastic; caring people for taking the time to answer!