So I've decided to go ahead with the above-knee amputation. I am scheduled to go in next Tuesday 4/22 for the amp, a washout on 4/24 or 4/25, then a final washout and closure on 4/29. Some number of days after that I transfer to an intensive rehab facility (not a skilled nursing facility). At some point in mid-May I go to a different hospital to have a TMR procedure done by a plastic surgeon - this procedure takes all the severed nerves that used to connect to the muscles that aren't there anymore and connects them to muscles that can't do anything because of how they are now anchored. By giving every nerve something to do, the incidence of phantom pain is sharply reduced.
Then home for something like three months of healing and PT, getting around on crutches and a wheelchair. If all goes well, sometime in August I will get fitted for my first prosthetic leg