Hi Zzevi, have been reading about your journey and finding some common experiences, in not being "heard" by OS and staff. If you read my posts, you'll see back when I found Bonesmarties, I was a mess! Poor pain control, not responding as expected to pain meds, in lots of pain, not sleeping=mess! Thank goodness for the folks here who reassured me! I am still way behind in ROM but my PT supports me, I'm getting lymphatic massage and doing Melt techniques, so knee has turned a few corners and made some progress. I am still being "threatened" with the dreaded MUA talk and see my OS next week, but I do not plan to allow it and will instead explain that I plan to continue progressing slowly, at my knee's own pace for at least another 2 months before considering.
Re: compression stockings, my PT did not like how they were pushing my swelling up to my knee so she recommended using an ace bandage wrap instead. I did so for a week or so, especially when up and about, but soon felt it hampered my efforts so discontinued its use.
Re: open wound... Mine quickly closed up, but the advice you are hearing here, from skilled nurses, etc. looking at your photo, is helpful. It probably stayed open longer due to the early harsh treatment of your knee with the PT-initiated aggressive bending, etc. I always liked the "hose full of water won't bend" image...of course it can't bend when it's filled with fluid!
Oh, and I love the "Cankles" image/word! That has happened to me too, on the few days when I've worked more than 2 hours in my store! Now you've given me a word for the lovely cankles!
You have come a long way from your start and it sounds like this wonderful group has been a huge benefit to you as it has to me!