I like the expression “theatre of the real”. I am intrigued by the idea of meeting someone there. Would they resemble their virtual self? I find myself disoriented enough by photos sometimes that don’t match my mental image. For example, a certain someone who quite often mentions desserts and who was roly-poly to match in my mind then turns out to be disconcertingly slender.
I plan to shop for my aqua shoes in the arena of the material, since online reviews, and your experience, emphasise the need for a close fit. Though whether that is achievable in shoes I can actually get on remains to be seen.
Re the jaws bite, I was actually surprised to see my scar when I was checking to see how my cellulite looked in the new swimsuit. Shows how little I think about the op these days!