Thank you Bone-obo for your kind words/thoughts.
We struggled in deciding when to do this next hip (I tried to get them to do them at the same time but they wouldn't) mostly because we are self-employed. It's very hard on my husband when I'm not there and when he has to be gone to take care of me, it's hard on our employees. My husband also takes one week off in October every year to go hunting, he works so very hard the rest of the year that I hate for him to have to miss any part of it. I wanted to make sure I was back driving and well enough that he wouldn't have to worry while he was gone. I also didn't want to be sidelined through the holidays (or when the snow started to fly here) sooooo, that being said, we tried to take in all of those factors (oh and that insane out of pocket we have for insurance).
Last Fall was a real test on my patience when I had my foot operated on and was non-weight bearing then in that boot for so long. I'm NOT a very good patient (say what?? SHOCKER!) I did better after getting pulled from PT last year and put back in the boot right after Thanksgiving because I had to do that walk of shame out of the Podiatrist office then lo and behold, January rolls around and I suddenly can't tie my shoe nor get in or out of my car without my hip getting "stuck". It all went downhill after that and suddenly 2018 wasn't the year I THOUGHT I was going to be having.
I know, I know - I could have gotten a much worse diagnosis (we've had many customers go through debilitating illnesses through the years as well as having lost many through death) but going from active to not active hit me like a ton of bricks. Now I'm whining so I do apologize. My husband says that the Podiatrist (who referred me to the OS) probably gave him a heads up that I'd be a "challenge".
Actually, my husband has been a solid ROCK in making sure THIS time I didn't chance ANY falls or mishaps. He was as surprised as I was though when we started reading through this forum about being careful with PT. It's quite the opposite to everything we've ever been told about joint replacements - makes sense but it was a new way of thinking to us.
That being said, I will go to my next PT session with a very cautious mindset and have a frank conversation with "Kevin". Kevin and I didn't hit it off too well during my PT for my foot - I thought everything they had me doing was just dumb and a huge waste of time, plus they took far too long between every exercise and I was always in a hurry to get it done and get back to work/home, etc. At one point I was asked what my level of exertion was and my smart alecky answer was to push my bangs off my forehead and say "do I look like I'm breaking a sweat????" Yep, 5'2" gal with a 'tude, that was me!! I'm pretty sure when he saw my name back on his roster for appointments, he probably felt like he had drawn the short straw.
I can't tell you how great it is to have a place to go with questions, concerns, thoughts and then get responses so quickly!! You guys all totally ROCK!
