HippyGal
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Re: post op walking
Indeed you've perhaps been very lucky.
I have a tall hinged gate I must pass through when getting to-and-from the dock. It is a locked gate so one must pass a card key over a pad before opening it. It is difficult to get dock carts and things through the gate because it is heavy. Most people are helpful to each other and hold the gate open when someone is coming or going especially with bags or a dock cart. Complete strangers are very nice to each other at this gate.
Just the other day, I was carrying a bag and my cane and maneuvering this gate open--I was on the side where you have to pull it towards you (with hinges on the right it opens on the left) so once it was partly open I was pushing it to the right with my body and then holding it open with the body until I could get the cane in the left hand and the bag on the right shoulder and squeeze my body through the smallest opening because the gate is so heavy it was closing on me.
There was a lady who came down the ramp as I was doing this and then she was just standing there on the other side of the gate slightly to my left waiting for me to get out of her way! Once I had the gate unlocked, if she'd had any sense of courtesy, she would have stood to my right pushing and holding the big wide gate open for BOTH of us but rather she waited until I squeezed myself through with the heavy gate pressing against my body as it tried to close. Then, as I was through, she put her hand on the gate to keep it open a few inches (so she wouldn't have to get out her card key) until I got "out of her way" so she could open it further and go through. The entire time she wouldn't look at me she looked away like I was some awful thing to be avoided. Seriously. :hissyfit: people are strangely rude when you've got a cane.
I must admit I haven't come across anyone being rude or pushing past me! Maybe I've just been lucky where I live!
Even the teenagers have held doors open & got out of my way on the pavements - then again, maybe they think I'll clobber them with my crutches/cane if they don't! :th_heehee:
Indeed you've perhaps been very lucky.
I have a tall hinged gate I must pass through when getting to-and-from the dock. It is a locked gate so one must pass a card key over a pad before opening it. It is difficult to get dock carts and things through the gate because it is heavy. Most people are helpful to each other and hold the gate open when someone is coming or going especially with bags or a dock cart. Complete strangers are very nice to each other at this gate.
Just the other day, I was carrying a bag and my cane and maneuvering this gate open--I was on the side where you have to pull it towards you (with hinges on the right it opens on the left) so once it was partly open I was pushing it to the right with my body and then holding it open with the body until I could get the cane in the left hand and the bag on the right shoulder and squeeze my body through the smallest opening because the gate is so heavy it was closing on me.
There was a lady who came down the ramp as I was doing this and then she was just standing there on the other side of the gate slightly to my left waiting for me to get out of her way! Once I had the gate unlocked, if she'd had any sense of courtesy, she would have stood to my right pushing and holding the big wide gate open for BOTH of us but rather she waited until I squeezed myself through with the heavy gate pressing against my body as it tried to close. Then, as I was through, she put her hand on the gate to keep it open a few inches (so she wouldn't have to get out her card key) until I got "out of her way" so she could open it further and go through. The entire time she wouldn't look at me she looked away like I was some awful thing to be avoided. Seriously. :hissyfit: people are strangely rude when you've got a cane.
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thanks again to all of you who supported me through this revision, all in all it was not near as bad as I feared. I intend to celebrate at the weekend. Wishing all of you a great recovery, for me life is so good now.