AnneR, it's really too bad that your doc has no bedside manner,
or any manners at all for that matter. I think he is a big factor in
your fear of the upcoming surgery. Sometimes people can be
very good at what they do, but not so good dealing with people,
and it sounds like he is this way. You have to try to look past that,
and trust his skill in the OR, and believe that whatever happens in there
you will come out of this better off. yes, you may have to recover a little
longer while you heal, but in the long run you will be better off with newer
technology, prosthesis and techniques.
I'm sure Josephine will be saddened to hear how your recent appt went, because
the last thing you should hear from your OS is that he and the team are
not confident in how the surgery will go. It sounds like he is a "debbie downer"
type of person, and he should stick to surgery and not patient consultation!
Keep your head up, before you know it the 12 weeks of non weight bearing
will be over, and you will start walking with a hip that feels better and you can
get on with your life.
