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Yes, try cutting back on your meds instead of stopping altogether. Cut the pills in half or just take less for a few days to a week before cutting back further.
 
SusieShoes I can’t believe the shivers and anxiety and waking up all the time! Would you have any suggestions?? I took one reluctantly to help with the symptoms it has very unpleasant side affect I found out the hard way. This whole process is a nightmare! Any help weaning of safely??
 
I suffered HORRIBLY FOR DAYS.. getting off that stuff. BUT it did help me through the surgery and the initial days afterwards. I got headaches, stomach cramps and horrific nausea. It felt way worse than my knee!!! I wish you luck! I'll be praying for you!
 
@funkymuse omg!!! That’s awful!!! I’m going through not able to stand on my leg because of swelling, stiffness and anxiety that something is going to happen, besides that lose feeling isn’t helping, first of all I should of never listened to the PT 1-1/2 hrs of exercise did me in and then stopping meds put the icing on the cake! I’m seriously thinking of quiting PT even though my husband thinks it’s the way to go, I’m really upset over all of this I hope nothing is wrong . Thank you for the prayers I need them badly right now.
 
I’m 10 days into recovery after bilateral knee replacement. Struggling with nights. The Oxycodin and Lyrica only helps for so long. I can’t imagine any dr would think that Tylenol is sufficient pain relief, even after a month. Surely?


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Just came back from PT, they are so obsessed with the ROM measuring all the times I’m there, I told him my knee is swollen it’s not going that far and to stop pushing !!! I’m at 108 now and I don’t care!!! It hurts to push. I talked to a women who had her knee replaced nov 11 and she was doing great , walking without assistance , I was kind of disappointed cause here I am still struggling with my walker with this fear of stepping full on my leg so it doesn’t snap! I want to cry!! You would never know she had a knee replaced .
I just wonder why some people it’s so simple and others struggle , it seems we’re going no where, I feel so behind like I should be doing great by now . I know we heal differently but it’s so diappointing!

Sorry but I had to let it out, my husband isn’t the most sympathetic person he just manages to make you feel let down. So I’m glad I can get it out here. Thank you for listening to me! I think I’m just going to push harder and see if I could do better and push harder and try to put my fear aside, if only I had the confidence to step on my leg maybe I’d be that women walking now:boohoo:​
 
Just came back from PT, they are so obsessed with the ROM measuring all the times I’m there, I told him my knee is swollen it’s not going that far and to stop pushing !!! I’m at 108 now and I don’t care!!! It hurts to push.
PT must never hurt. Do you remember this, from the post-op reading we gave you?
a. If it hurts, don't do it and don't allow anyone - especially a physical therapist - to do it to you
b. If your leg swells more or gets stiffer in the 24 hours after doing it, don't do it again.
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That PT is doing your leg no good at all and going there is just making you worried.
It's your knee. Take control and take action to help it.
Stop doing exercises at PT. Give your knee a chance to recover from all that pushing. Tell them to stop measuring.
Instead of painful exercises and measuring, insist that your therapist helps you with gaining confidence in walking - you are the boss, not your therapist.

It's not exercising that gets you your ROM - it's time. Time to recover, time for swelling and pain to settle, and time to heal. Your ROM is there right from the start, just waiting for all that to happen, so it can show itself.

My surgeon doesn't measure ROM at all, because he knows that function is more important than the numbers. He just looks at my knees and says, "Show me what you can do."

For this early in recovery, your flexion is just fine. You do know it can continue to improve for a long time yet, don't you?
There's no need to rush to get ROM (Range of Motion) because it can continue to improve for a year, or even much longer, after a knee replacement. There isn't any deadline you have to meet:
Myth busting: the "window of opportunity" in TKR

I talked to a women who had her knee replaced nov 11 and she was doing great , walking without assistance , I was kind of disappointed cause here I am still struggling with my walker with this fear of stepping full on my leg so it doesn’t snap!
And that is why we advise people not to compare.
You are still early in this year-long recovery and you have plenty of time.
Her knee might not have needed as much work during surgery as yours did, but how would you know that?
Every knee is on its own recovery journey and no two knees are the same.

Your leg won't snap. Try to trust it.
I feel so behind like I should be doing great by now . I know we heal differently but it’s so disappointing!
There is no time line you have to follow, no deadlines you have to meet. Complete recovery normally takes a full year and there is no need to rush. Time is on your side.

Your knee is following its own plan and it knows what it's doing.
Where are you in recovery?? (TKR)
 
Give your therapist something positive to do: help you with walking. Use your therapist to gain confidence.

I sat in a dentist’s chair many years ago and expressed fear the material he was using to make molds of my teeth would pull off a crown. He said, “If that’s going to happen, this is where you want it to happen!” True enough. He could pop it right back on.

Put full weight on your knee at PT. Nothing will go wrong, but even if something did, you are with professionals. They would get help and you would get care.

I know of only one person whose knee replacement snapped. She was running and fell first against a tree, twisting her knee, and then fell knee-first onto cement. She fell down because she had drop-foot from a stroke. Her OS and neurologist both had told her not to run. She’d fallen on her knee three times previously without harming it. She told me her story when we were in PT together after her revision.

You aren’t like that lady. All you’re going to do is stand and walk. It takes a way lot more than standing on a knee implant for it to break. Ask your therapist to be your angel and hold your hand while you put weight on your knee. Mine held my hand when I first stepped over cones. I distrusted my balance. But with him holding my hand, I found out I could do it. You can do it too!
 
Celle and SusieShoes thank you so much for you’re advise, I really appreciate and take it to heart, going through this rough time is taking it’s toll on my sanity . So thankful for having this site to vent and get great advice and feel better about where I am at this part of this long journey.
 
Just came back from PT, they are so obsessed with the ROM measuring all the times I’m there, I told him my knee is swollen it’s not going that far and to stop pushing !!! I’m at 108 now and I don’t care!!! It hurts to push. I talked to a women who had her knee replaced nov 11 and she was doing great , walking without assistance , I was kind of disappointed cause here I am still struggling with my walker with this fear of stepping full on my leg so it doesn’t snap! I want to cry!! You would never know she had a knee replaced .
I just wonder why some people it’s so simple and others struggle , it seems we’re going no where, I feel so behind like I should be doing great by now . I know we heal differently but it’s so diappointing!

Sorry but I had to let it out, my husband isn’t the most sympathetic person he just manages to make you feel let down. So I’m glad I can get it out here. Thank you for listening to me! I think I’m just going to push harder and see if I could do better and push harder and try to put my fear aside, if only I had the confidence to step on my leg maybe I’d be that women walking now:boohoo:​

I know, sometimes you just have to vent ....


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@AnnieC - hi I just can’t help it! It seems like I’m trapped and not getting anywhere soon, I know it takes time but I’m getting miserable not getting to do what I want! I never thought I would say I miss house work haha!! I recently stoped working and thought life is going to be good ! Oh boy this is not what I pictured!! Just keep saying to myself it’s going to get better :gaah::hairpulling::headbang:
 
OMG yes! But I don’t think anyone’s retirement is going to be what they thought it would be. The times of milk and honey are no more. We grew up in a different time that was so idyllic compared to what young people today are dealing with. Tough one .... I can’t afford to stop work ....


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We grew up in a different time that was so idyllic compared to what young people today are dealing with.
I think times were just as tough when I was growing up. I was a teenager in England during the Cold War, when we lived in the shadow of The Bomb; then there was the IRA, setting off bombs and committing acts of terrorism in the UK; there was also the Korean War and the Vietnam War. They were unsettling times for everyone.
 
This was suppose to be the golden years ! Now it’s doctors, surgery, pain! What happen to the milk and honey? We grew up during the Vietnam war so times were unsettling then to but it seem it got worse now with the never ending war overseas all the poor young people going over and the terror bombings it’s just very down watching the news now nothing good , I don’t watch it I’m depressed enough and that just brings me down more.
 
Your golden years will be there when your knee is healed! It's just a few months away!
 
@sistersinhim thank you so much for such encouragement, I really needed to see that, it’s hard to visualize that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! You are a blessing.:nativity:
 
Thank you for your kind words! It is a blessing to me to be able to help people like you!
 
I am so blessed to have found such wonderful people to turn to when I get so discouraged that I don’t think there will ever be an end to this! Thank you for always pulling me through! I’m usually s happy person and it shows at work I always try to encourage and help my team mates , when there is a problem I’m the one that they go too! Now I’m so grateful to have found wonderful ladies to help me through this trying time, thank you so much:)
 
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