Thanks for those references to the Bowen Technique, Layla. It is very gentle and was the only thing I could find that healed my severe sciatica - previously I'd tried a chiropractor and acupuncture as well as the more standard approaches. Three Bowen treatments and I was cured and thankfully, it hasn't come back.
As one post says, it's used for all sorts of things, including emotional well-being. I can see that my hips are misaligned, which will of course affect my walking and cause pain, so I'll see my practitioner to right that. Also, I believe it helps the immune system not to overreact.
Another tool I'd used in the year before my first op and after it and I found helpful but should have been more disciplined in using is the idea of muscle imbalance. This particular theory is that many people with knee arthritis have a muscle imbalance and the quads are much stronger than the glutes. This was certainly true of me. Dr. David Mddaugh who runs a knee clinic in El Paso has a whole host of - I found - very helpful videos on YouTube.
I found that when I began to build my glutes (and they are far from built yet) and really focussed on using them as the main muscles for walking, I had much less pain. But I forgot about all that this time round, in my eagerness to do what the physios were telling me, and caused myself more pain by increasing the imbalance using all the quad exercises.
I'd be really interested if anyone has had contact with this approach or clinic.
All good wishes,
Mary