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Don't be like me and wait too long!

I felt so choosy.. and guilty Yes I put myself on the cancellation list.. I can't say however may I have August 8th please? I hope they call back offering the 12th..
the conversation " Yes I will have one Aug.12th!":heehee:
 
Well I don't have to worry about sleep the night before surgery.. Have to be at hospital at 5:30 AM.. We are an hour away.. That Hibiclens shower at 3:30 AM .. They just changed my time from later in the morning!:yikes:
 
First up is the best slot! Early in, early out and by midday you are sitting up enjoying your lunch.
 
I agree with, Jaycey.
First up is best. I wasn't first but a close second at 8:15 am, or so.
Less time to stress, day of.
I hope you have a nice weekend!
@mainegirl1
 
I had a 5:30 AM report time too, @mainegirl1. I was thrilled because I was the first surgery of the day and just wanted it over! I only live about 20 minutes from the hospital, however. Although I was happy at the early time, my husband was distinctly unenthusiastic.
 
Counting down.. All the prep is done. There is a lot of it.

On May 1 I was approved for surgery with caveats: lots of caveats: clearance from dentist, PCP and cardiologist I was given a notebook on all the aspects of the surgery and what to expect. Homework. I was scheduled for appointments 30 days before surgery and 12 and 42 days post op and also x rays.
So during June we worked on all the clearances.. I went to the History and Physical appointment on July 22 and they asked me if I had received a phone call from Anaesthesia.. I had not; I called them. they were running behind and assured me they would call me later in the week. They did. A phone interview. Of course there was much repetition of questions others had asked me.
Meanwhile I attended a required joint replacement class..The practice wants you educated and with opportunity to ask questions .

During the H and P session they did examine my charts so there was a good bit of them studying the computer.. I did not mind.. Its folly to think that they can remember all the details.. When I first had chemo I was annoyed at everyone asking me the same things over and over ( at that time I thought; are you really unable to read?) Then I realized all the repetition was for my own benefit and well being. You really do not want to be fed the wrong poison.

After that I cut medical pros some slack.. They need time to review in my presence and ascertain that they have the full information they need ( and the right patient!)

I write this as some who have never been in surgery before may feel the same way I did in chemo and during that surgery ( as a first timer) If they say that something needs to be done a certain way there must be a reason but at the beginning this can be hard to believe.

Of course this is easy for me to say as its my second joint replacement with the same practice.
Communication seems to be key and I have many ways of communicating with the practice.. They have a messaging system and a dedicated staff member to attend to e communication.. I have never felt ignored and if I had been of course I would be reconsidering my choice. At the conclusion of every visit I was given a summary ( usually multi page!) of what was discussed at that days visit. The H and P visit has my day of surgery schedule down to a timetable of what to do and what to stop doing.

A dedicated scheduler is a great asset. On that May 1 appointment I sat down with her and mapped out all the appointments and was asked ( not told )what was a good time . Plenty can go wrong with an inept scheduling system. But in the visits I have had with this practice ( totalling 7 now I think) I have never even had time in the waiting room to read one article in a magazine.

I saw my OS once.. I will see him the day of surgery maybe one more time in hospital and at the six week check.. They are busy guys and have a staff that handles the rest . They can't see everyone all the time and still do 300 replacements a year.


Too long is becoming so short!
 
Well, you are moving ahead, @mainegirl1 As we're approaching August, it definitely makes it all seem real, doesn't it? I had my two week post op appointment yesterday and that made the possibility of full recovery seem real, as if I'd crested the top of the hill and it's going to be a slow and steady, even if a bit bumpy, descent but a clear goal in sight--fully bionic in 2020! Sounds like you're good to go and now the final countdown will begin. Today's the last day in July, so starting tomorrow it will really start to feel "real", I'm guessing. Hope you're managing okay these days, not comfortable but coping which is often the best that can be expected until the Big Day! Have a happy Wednesday!
 
@Barbaraj. I know the hip is not normal but my combo of OTC drugs is making me pretty much pain free and I can sit normally and get up almost normally ( I could always sit whereas you could not. Getting up was agony.. No longer is) Paddled and swam yesterday and today for a total of four hours.. I don't get to take the loopy feel good stuff till right before surgery.

I wonder if it is because I am 110 percent confident in my team and there is no doubt nor nagging fears( will I still be rejected?). The best part is I am sleeping well. My heart goes out to those whose preop situations are less than confidence building and at worst negligent.

Gotta go pick blueberries.. we are out.. Fortunately they are highbush.. We usually forage for lowbush but crawling around at 90 degrees isn't what I want.
 
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Dang it, @mainegirl1, so glad to read you're feeling confident and positive despite the wait for surgery. Keeping busy if you're able is a lifesaver, or it was for me, and nighttime sleep as well--good for you! I actually was able to clock a solid 6-1/2 hours of sleep last night with no bathroom breaks. Sure, it's not enough (I really thrive best on 7 - 8 hours) but it's another first in terms of sleep, especially since I'm not able to sleep on my side yet. I hate back sleeping! Blueberry picking--sounds nice. I always remember that book I read my children, "Blueberries For Sal" a very charming read with lovely illustrations. Have a good day.
 
@mainegirl1 you have the best attitude and I love your spirit! We are closing in on August.
Blueberries are so delicious.. I have the best memories of picking raspberries on our farm ( childhood) eating while still warm from the sun. :flwrysmile:
 
@CricketHip dont give me too much credit!
I did a lot of moaning here in May
Today is a day if running around berrying and finding out some tomatoes I planted are bearing fruit that is ripe
Too bad the little cherry tomatos didn't make it into the kitchen before being grabbed by the stomach monster!

On a more somber note a dear friend from Missouri had open heart surgery Monday
As of today he had to go back to have the wound closed but something went wrong and he is hemorrhaging out.
Kind of puts things in perspective
I'll take my surgery gladly
 
Hi @mainegirl1
You are going to Love your new hip.
I know you've been through much worse, and there are many others who have including your friend.

We are going to love you through this inconvenient recovery, and life will get good again.
Keep the faith.
 
It makes me so happy to read that this “cocktail” is working for you, and that you’re able to be so active enjoying your Maine summer. I hope your birthday adventure is wonderful.

I was so sorry to hear about your friend. These hips are serious business to us - of course they are - and yet there are far more serious medical problems. Fingers crossed.
 
Thanks @Ptarmigan for your kind words.
You have been through so much unnecessary problems and I hope your next office serves you better!
Right now the prayer call is for a miracle for my long distance friend
May that never be needed for any of us and our loved ones
 
Good Afternoon :wave:
Prayers for your long distance friend and anyone else who's heart is heavy over this tragic outcome.
Love how you're not letting any grass grow under your feet as you wait. Only eighteen more days!
Wishing you comfort as you limp to the finish line.
We're here for you. :console2:
@mainegirl1
 
Today is August 1, @mainegirl1 so you’re on the final runway to takeoff! I remember when I entered into the month of the Big Day last time, I took a deep breath, well aware that I was getting close. You are doing so well, I do hope these final countdown days continue to be manageable for you. So sorry about your friend, I am sure it is hard to hear, here’s hoping for a miracle. Have a good day.
 
There WAS a miracle in the night. He is doing just fine today.. a close brush with Heaven but not quite time.. The medical team got him squared away..
Everything happens for a reason.. I am now 150 percent confident everything will be ok and if its not right away it will be ultimately.

And no I am not religious!

PS. Wondering if I can go see him and his wife in Oct.. It would be a six day drive round trip two months post op.. We did a similar drive post knee but it was 3 months post op.
 
The hair on my arms just stood straight up when I read this news! Thrilled! Oh @mainegirl1 - what a wonderful harbinger of good things to come!
 
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