McDeeva
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@dinsmaum and @keepmovin thank you so much for all this information! It is a lot to process but I will have much time to read as my surgery is Tomorrow!!! My appt was on Tuesday and they scheduled me immediately. I have been soo busy, not even time to process it. Making arrangements, work stuff, school stuff, dog arrangements just unavailable! But you know what I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me! The enemy will not have control over my mind and emotions! Although things are happening fast God did not give me a spirit of fear or defeat! I decree and declare By His Stripes I am healed! I have decided t make the choice to just be positive and put it in Gods hands. There is literally nothing I can do about it but pray for Him to guide the doctors hands. Lord knows I am in need of intercession right now! I am fighting the fear and uncertainty the best way I can! Its so hard though!
So tomorrow at about 1230 I will have the surgery. Dropping my dog off at 7pm to the sitters because ironically me and my fiancée were leaving for Chicago tomorrow! Oh what a difference a week makes! But look at God working already, made it so we not only already had the time off, but had already made arrangements for our dog! Her name is Trudi-Mae she is 1.5 yr old Shorkie! So full of spunk and love! It was bittersweet this morning making her out because I realized I wont be able to walk her for quite awhile.
I spoke to my manager today and he was very nice! I am really blessed to have a supportive job as they have been through this with me 2 times and this will be the 3rd, with the 4th coming up after that spacer is out. Filled out FMLA paperwork etc...it just sucks because my fiancée wont be able to take off a lot of time because we are not married yet! Hopefully friends and family will fill in the gap! I feel kinda like aburden though. Sigh...
So the surgeon said I will be able to be weight bearing pretty good. They are making the cement spacer in the operating room as many have stated. He said if all goes well with the explant I should be ok enough to work from home some which I was very happy with. Working will give me some sense of normalcy you know? IF I am just laying in the bed hey I may as well try to extend these benefits....well at least when I am not on narcotic medicine as I work in the healthcare industry and do not want it effecting my decision making.
Yesterday me and the hubby went and got keys made, went to Walmart and big lots. I bought a elevated toilet set but realized I should put through to my insurance. I also got a computer chair that sits up like 3 feet as many chairs and the couch in my house are low. At big lots I got an adult coloring book and a journal! I also got some night gowns, and a packet of hanes undies because sorry I am not wearing my Victoria Secrets to the hospital LOL!
So today I am working at 1000%!! After work I need to go to the nail shop to get this shellac off my nails. Then we drop the dog off at 7pm then come home and get the finishing touches before tomorrow (EEK).
I feel like no matter how much preparing I do I am unprepared. But you know what when you think nobody is there God sends people like all of you for encouragement and support! I am very thankful for this forum to express myself with people who have gone or are going through what I am about to embark on. So sorry for this rant! So please if you can uplift me in prayer! hugs and blessings to you all!
So tomorrow at about 1230 I will have the surgery. Dropping my dog off at 7pm to the sitters because ironically me and my fiancée were leaving for Chicago tomorrow! Oh what a difference a week makes! But look at God working already, made it so we not only already had the time off, but had already made arrangements for our dog! Her name is Trudi-Mae she is 1.5 yr old Shorkie! So full of spunk and love! It was bittersweet this morning making her out because I realized I wont be able to walk her for quite awhile.
I spoke to my manager today and he was very nice! I am really blessed to have a supportive job as they have been through this with me 2 times and this will be the 3rd, with the 4th coming up after that spacer is out. Filled out FMLA paperwork etc...it just sucks because my fiancée wont be able to take off a lot of time because we are not married yet! Hopefully friends and family will fill in the gap! I feel kinda like aburden though. Sigh...
So the surgeon said I will be able to be weight bearing pretty good. They are making the cement spacer in the operating room as many have stated. He said if all goes well with the explant I should be ok enough to work from home some which I was very happy with. Working will give me some sense of normalcy you know? IF I am just laying in the bed hey I may as well try to extend these benefits....well at least when I am not on narcotic medicine as I work in the healthcare industry and do not want it effecting my decision making.
Yesterday me and the hubby went and got keys made, went to Walmart and big lots. I bought a elevated toilet set but realized I should put through to my insurance. I also got a computer chair that sits up like 3 feet as many chairs and the couch in my house are low. At big lots I got an adult coloring book and a journal! I also got some night gowns, and a packet of hanes undies because sorry I am not wearing my Victoria Secrets to the hospital LOL!
So today I am working at 1000%!! After work I need to go to the nail shop to get this shellac off my nails. Then we drop the dog off at 7pm then come home and get the finishing touches before tomorrow (EEK).
I feel like no matter how much preparing I do I am unprepared. But you know what when you think nobody is there God sends people like all of you for encouragement and support! I am very thankful for this forum to express myself with people who have gone or are going through what I am about to embark on. So sorry for this rant! So please if you can uplift me in prayer! hugs and blessings to you all!
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