@SusieShoes I do plan to borrow a few things from sweet ladies at church who have been through knee surgery, a raised toilet seat, a shower bench to name a few. I think I will look at one of the lounge doctors too, do they work ok for just 1 leg?
@sistersinhim I wish I did! We have local y's around here but can't afford the cost to join and to add insult to injury, I am hard of hearing and wear hearing aids in both ears, therefore when I swim I have to take them out, and well, I am not likely to hear much of anything then. I tend to shy away from pools for that reason.
@OJ2 I am cutting calories, but I follow myfitnesspal to control weight and foot intake. I don't do anything severe, I just have it set to lose an avg of 1lb a week. I am trying to get some more working out done at home, lifting some arm weights and start using the exercise bike I have.
@Pk4tmjsd Thank you, I know this is needed, and I am trying to think of all the positives that come from the surgery rather than the annoyances that I know will be there. I know it'll be painful, but I can't imagine its worse than what I currently deal with. Some days I can barely get out of bed they hurt so bad.
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Well now I am at 57 days and counting. Some days I am still stressed how this is all going to work out. How my kids will get to all their activities etc. My oldest should have her license in Oct, that was the soonest they had an opening! We are required to do appointments for road tests here and they are booked solid. She has been driving all over the place lately though, and should do fine on her test next month. On positive notes my oldest graduates in May next year and has been accepted to all 4 colleges she applied to and got an scholarship award for her top school. Too bad it's not paying for a full ride LOL but we will take any amount!
Time is ticking away and I am trying to get everything organized and ready for recovery at home. We're getting ride of junk and clutter, getting all our ducks in a row with husband and daughters work schedules. I think the hardest part right off is going to be laid up during Thanksgiving. I am not sure how that will work out. We aren't really hosting anyone, but my mom who is in a nursing home usually comes for dinner. However I am not going to be able to deal with that, so not sure how this is going to work.
Thanks for all your help here, answering questions when I have them. I really enjoy reading the recovery threads, so I can get an idea of how things will go.