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@Fibreartist I am so sorry this whatever-it-is is happening to you! I have zero idea what it is, but it sounds like your surgeon is investigating thoroughly.
I have numb patches, smaller and more clearly related to their various incisions. One just at/below my 33-yr-old hysterectomy scar, and one for each hip.
Meanwhile, have you looked into Occupational Therapy? Is that available in NZ? Your surgeon could order it I guess, and you could learn some tips about how to manage more daily tasks independently. It is certainly depressing to think of being dependent forever, and I'm thinking that a good OT will have some workarounds for you, tools, tricks of the trade. I have only a passing acquaintance with it, right after each hip, but the "reacher/grabber" they provided for me still comes in handy! There was also a sock on-and-off aid, and maybe a back-scratcher kind of thing for putting soap/lotion on unreachable body parts. They did not give me, but highly recommended, a shower stool, for sitting whilst scrubbing and/or drying the toes. And the rest of me of course! I know people on here have figured out how to use the grabber for assistance dressing. I was so lucky in having warm weather THRs, so that socks were not an issue, thank heavens! But there was that sock aid if I'd needed it.
Wishing you all the very best in this journey, and a very successful outcome!
I have numb patches, smaller and more clearly related to their various incisions. One just at/below my 33-yr-old hysterectomy scar, and one for each hip.
Meanwhile, have you looked into Occupational Therapy? Is that available in NZ? Your surgeon could order it I guess, and you could learn some tips about how to manage more daily tasks independently. It is certainly depressing to think of being dependent forever, and I'm thinking that a good OT will have some workarounds for you, tools, tricks of the trade. I have only a passing acquaintance with it, right after each hip, but the "reacher/grabber" they provided for me still comes in handy! There was also a sock on-and-off aid, and maybe a back-scratcher kind of thing for putting soap/lotion on unreachable body parts. They did not give me, but highly recommended, a shower stool, for sitting whilst scrubbing and/or drying the toes. And the rest of me of course! I know people on here have figured out how to use the grabber for assistance dressing. I was so lucky in having warm weather THRs, so that socks were not an issue, thank heavens! But there was that sock aid if I'd needed it.
Wishing you all the very best in this journey, and a very successful outcome!