Diane:
I was 59 when I had my accident in Peru on New Year's Eve, 2009. On Jan 8 2010 I had my 60 birthday in hospital in Lima. Instead of the beautiful lunch party for 12 in a lovely hotel near our home here in Cheshire, UK, which was booked before we left to go on holiday, I had a crusty bread roll and cheese, which my husband had managed to find in a supermarket (crusty bread - my favourite - being almost unheard of in S America), a box of Ferrero Rocher, and a bottle of champagne. One of the most memorable meals of my life.
I was nearly 62 when I had the revision, and I'm 64 now. I'm 5 foot 8, and my weight hovers around 10 stone, sometimes more. It's difficult to quantify your level of fitness. I certainly never went to a gym, or trained for a marathon, that sort of stuff. But I've always walked a lot. I have a pretty healthy diet, and have never smoked. I do like wine, however, and probably drink too much of that. I was just average fitness, I suppose.
Don't agonise too much about that side of things. I'm sure you'd soon get used to crutches, if it does come to that. You have to learn a few techniques, that's for sure, but it is truly no big deal. Crutches rule!
Finding your way through the maze of trying to understand which test is more important than the last one is (I felt anyway), more or less impossible, unless you started off with some medical knowledge. I did ask a lot of questions, and tried to appear engaged and intelligent, but in reality I just did what they told me. I was at a very good hospital, under a top class surgeon. Quite honestly, who cared what I thought? (Though people were too polite to say that, of course.)
Try to go with the flow a bit. After all, "the flow" is going to go with you, whether you like it or not, so you might as well try and beat it at its own game. Your situation is, as we say in the UK, "all part of life's rich pageant". (Proving, if proof were needed, that we say a great many silly things over here.)
All the best.
Glynis