@Josephine : Animated it the *only* way I want to watch anything surgical related, lol! But thank you, I feel better knowing there are less drastic options than my imagination supplied. My imagination can be quite...well developed!

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@keepmovin : Thank you! You have such a kind and generous spirit, I feel heart warmed by your communications. I do have help now, much more often than not. My son's job has slowed to a crawl, which is bad for him but good for this situation. And I have a couple of friends who check in regularly and would do pretty much anything I needed. That whole situation is much better.
@Cynthia777 : Thank you for the tip about the disposable cloths, I will definitely follow up on that. Those would be helpful and convenient, and given we can't shower for awhile after the surgeries, would come in handy for awhile yet!
@KcSweet1975 : ooh, better keep an eye on that not stable feeling. Is your OS good about patients calling with concerns and questions? It would be worth letting him know. Of course I am coming from a place of super caution now. I hear you about feeling like you are missing out. It is even harder with kids. I keep trying to refocus on what I *can* do now, and that this is just temporary. Because our infections were caught in a relatively timely manner, we are not fighting for our lives, and our hips are fixable. Had we become septic, that would be a whole different story. Doesn't make it less hard to miss out, but does, for me at least, keep some perspective.
@Krista : Bed for downstairs arrives tomorrow!!! Then no more stairs unless I decide to go up for a shower!! I can hardly wait!

We ,and by " we" I mean "my son and friend" got the space cleared out and good to go.
On the brighter side, I did get to get out a bit this weekend, thanks to my new best friend the wheelchair. Son took me to see the latest Marvel movie, perfect escapism. Worked out well, I was reasonable comfortable. Only drawback was the spots to park your wheelchair are closer to the screen than I like, and because of the head tilt, I got motion sick during the fight scenes and had to close my eyes a lot.

But given that I get kind of bored with the fight scenes after a bit, that wasn't so awful, lol.
And then a friend took me to the store to get a some birthday and condolence cards. Being strolled around the store was nice, as was picking out the cards myself. However, getting back in the car turned out to be problematic, for the first time. I just could not find a position that allowed me to get my leg back in with out some real serious pain. Which was startling and scary.
So I decided as lovely as it is to be out, I am in. It just feels too risky. I have to go out Thursday for the aspiration, and if that goes well, I will see about getting out next Sunday to see my niece and her little ones as they will be in town for 1 day, from out of state. Otherwise, I am staying put!
9 more days! The countdown continues!
