@kattyaz us happy folks with good recoveries are out there. It is just when we get our lives back, we go back to doing all the things that were taken from us by arthritis or injury.
My first surgery went OK. Right up until the point they attached someone else's leg to my body. Looking back I can see I recovered quickly, but it did not seem like it then.
After my second hip surgery, I had more control over my leg when I came to in the recovery room than I did at one month after the first surgery.
Every surgery is different. I don't know if there is a typical result. My advice would to be in the best shape possible prior to surgery.
Since I knew the rules of the game prior to my second surgery, I worked my core religiously right up until the day of surgery. It really helped to be able get into and out of bed. I also did my PT to the letter afterwards.
It has been 4-1/2 months since surgery. I rode my bicycle Saturday. On Sunday I did yoga, resistance band exercises and worked in the yard. Tonite after work, I cooked dinner, walked 1.5 miles then lifted weights. I have a 100K bike race next Aug I'm in training for. I am riding it with another double hippy and several mortals

I was training to ride it this past August but the pain was to the point by last fall that I had to park the bike.
I will close by saying the most important thing imho is your attitude. I'm not going to lie, the first couple of days after surgery suck. But, if you have a good attitude, take your meds, eat, do your PT and have some mental health support like this forum, you will do just fine. There are lots of success stories here. I think
@Layla pointed you in the right direction.
Doug