Hi
@texasvet ....Well!! After reading your post all I can do is hope we're "opposite" in ALL directions; I am very emotional most of the time, was extremely "skittish" (substitute "terrified") before first surgery and didn't wait until second surgery to have a meltdown... managed that in the first couple of weeks post first hip.... hopefully this indicates that I'll be nonchalant pre hip 2, and not have any meltdowns after
I do have to have (well no-one "HAS to have" but you know what I mean) the right hip done - it's bone on bone too, it's really starting to arc up now symptom wise, but there's no evidence of the AVN found in the left hip - mind you they didn't MRI this hip when they did the left one, which was where the extent of it was found, hardly showed on the Xrays and was a "that might be worth a second look" on the CT scan that I had simply because I had a fall, waste of an opportunity if you ask me... but no-one did
I haven't rushed towards it either, for the same reasons you've stated; knowing how long you're out of the loop for... and the patience required

I was nowhere as disabled as I thought I'd be first time round though, so I'm actually not as worried as I was then. I have a tendinitis issue and to be frank THAT's what's holding me back.... not the fact that I feel so good, but the fact that there's still major discomfort in that hip area (well psoas and piriformis, so "area" kinda covers it

) I a) wanted to feel "YES, that's the way to go, can't wait for righty to feel like this", which I don't yet and b) have that hip healed and forgotten about completely before I start the process all over, oh and there is a c)... "my" surgeon is on a Fellowship in Canada and doesn't return until January 2016 - he actually was a locum for the OS I dealt with for nearly a year while I tossed the notion of needing surgery around in my head, but I found him to be so personable that I opted for him to do the op and the rapport I had with him has me willing to wait until he returns to do the other hip... now if only the hip will wait I should be okay
It must have been quite distressing for you to have a meltdown if that's not in your make-up, sharing it with us all here is a "good" thing, very cathartic

and when you see how common it is you don't feel so odd about it I think! Hope all is back on track now, sure it is.
Happy Healing
Donna
