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I will be 49 next Tuesday, and I want my life back! This arthritis has slowed me down and has kept me in pain for the past two years. I have been considering TKR for almost a year now since my doctor told me I have total medial loss in my left knee and was bone to bone. I worry about the prescription medications because I've never taken anything stronger than Motrin in my life. I know I will be a lot happier and enjoy all the things that make me happy again, but I have this fear of the "what if's".... Everyone keeps saying I'm really young for KR, but I say I'm too young to stop living! I am becoming emotionally affected from this condition which is putting me in tears not just from constant pain, but also from frustration. My husband and I love outdoor activities, and I still love to shop with my daughters and friends. I haven't been able to enjoy these things for over a year due to the pain that comes after just minutes of walking. My husband now does our grocery shopping, and we don't get to enjoy a lot of the things we used to enjoy because of my sick knees. Is it time for me??? I keep asking myself if I'm making the right decision by having surgery at my age...Will I do okay with the narcotic drugs? Will I be off work longer than I can be? Will I get a blood clot? I'm so nervous! Someone please make me feel better......
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