Thank you!

My days tend to be better than my nights. Sleep is still not yet ideal. 1 1/2 hours at a time last week. 2 hours at a time this week and if I am real lucky, three hours. I usually need an afternoon nap, and then usually I get tired again about 6 or 7PM and nap again. I know it will get better with time. This is only week two. I figure it is good for my circulation to be up so frequently, at this point.
Yes, 8" does seem long, when ideally with this surgery it is 2 - 3" but I think he may have needed to band my femur to prevent fracture. Maybe the swelling made it larger, too? The OS has not released the surgical report to my GP yet, so I can find out. He went on vacation after my surgery.
Canes fall over all the time too, and reaching to pick them up is a big no no, until balance is good enough for golfers reach.
Since I had the northern approach I can bend forward, and I have been doing the golfer's reach quite a bit, because I was doing it before surgery. I always do it holding on to to something. I just can't toe in or cross the midline even with a dual mobility cup,( at least not yet). The non-slip sock, walking has definitely improved the post surgical toeing in.

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I have a folding grabber I keep attached to my walker for anything I can't comfortable reach. That has been one of my most useful tools.
I have a slide in bench for the shower, which is what they want me to use. I still can't bend my knee properly to go over the tub. I am requesting PT assess that today. I put the soap in an onion skin bag and knotted both ends, then strung some elastic through, and attached it to the handicap bar in the shower, so soap can't fall to the floor while I am showering. That is working very well. I used a hanger, and bent it, to hang the hand shower to the left side, on the curtain rod, so no strong water hits my surgical area ( as instructed) and it has worked well, too. All black and blues are gone
