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and that s the hardest bit , trying to find patience and trying not to worry about what 'might' be wrong. I was convinced at more than one point that I'd crippled myself on purpose!
 
Please, PLEASE!!! do not compare yourself with anybody---it just makes for more frustration---I know that firsthand as I kept watching and reading of everybody's progress while my ship hadn't left the sailed yet. It became extremely frustrating until I learned that my knees were the ones setting the timetable and that i was powerless to do anything about it.

Everybody is different---I know that you will arrive at your destination---it is, however, up to your knees to let you know when that is.
 
Well, I'd like to change the name of this thread. How do you do that? I have had a huge breakthrough. And most of it doesn't have to do with my knee, although I am able to walk a bit better. Here's what happened. The other night I had really bad stomach pains. Then back pain. I decided to try to sleep to see if I could get through the night, then go to the doc's the next day.

Woke at 1 in the morning and pain was awful. Moaning, rocking pain. So I called the doc, had the answering service wake him. He got back and said, "Well you're right, it might be diverticulitis. Go to the ER." My husband is in CA. taking care of his dad who had fallen and was in hospital. I drove myself to a friend's, she took me to nearby ER and stayed with me as I waited two hours groaning, calling out, breaking into sweats, vomiting, then getting chills.

Just horrible. I thought Appendicitis, I thought infected intestinal walls, I thought emergency surgery. But I had to wait my turn as other people who actually looked as sick or sicker, went first. By the time I had seen the one doc and gotten pain killers and stopped sweating, I was taken for a CAT scan. They had to wait while I stopped vomiting and trembling. Turns out the nurse, not the doc, knew what I had. She'd told me, "You're rocking with pain like you have a kidney stone." I did. I stayed the night in the ER dozing a tiny bit. My friend had stayed too, rubbing my back, never once telling me I was a baby. I slept a lot that day. Drank two gallons of water, took only ibuprofin, the pain never got unbearable again, and slept some more. But I'd been off my knee except for a short walk (because the evening air was like silk and so beautiful I needed to be out). And watered the garden (even though I said I couldn't) because I knew it would make my husband happy.

Today, more pain, I took some meds, passed the stone (I think it's just one) and realized I hadn't stretched, elevated or iced my leg at all yesterday. I think the intensity of the pain from the kidney stone made me realize that my knee really is not that bad; yes, it hurts bit and I wish it would bend more easily when I walk, but , in fact, it's pretty good considering. And today, my knee feels pretty good. I think maybe it just needed more rest. A lot more. And while I don't expect to feel completely exuberant about my progress, the experience shifted things for me. Both the intense pain, the real rest and waking up to a merely tight knee. A door opened, or a corner turned.

When Josephine wrote this post: CindyLu, I can promise you 110% that nobody ever had problems from not doing enough. Quite the reverse! I absolutely didn't believe it. Jo, I remember you told me that you "never ever said not to do any exercise at all." Well....that's sort of what you're saying to Cindy Lu. But no matter. I think that, all along, I didn't really understand what "less is more" means. I don't recommend kidney stones, but perhaps you could shut a door on your fingers, or try skigirl's head slapping exercise, with a really hard slap, to wake yourself up. Sometimes I just need someone or something to translate what my knee is trying to say to me. What a wake up!
 
Oh Jane, thank goodness you're on the mend! That must have been scary till you found out what the trouble was. I have heard that stones are really painful. I guess it takes a really bad pain to make us forget our other aches and pains. I hope you feel better now and take care of yourself. I was on my feet at work most of the day today and am aching so next plan is for a hot bath. Tomorrow will be first time doing 2 days in a row, on the positive side the customers have been really nice and seem to have missed me!:) .
 
Juniper---I will be happy to change the name of your thread if you will just let me know what you'd like to call it now. Just tag me in your post by using the @ in front of my user name bottomshollow.
 
Sorry about the kidney stone! My husband went through your middle of the night experience on an airplane from Switzerland to Brazil. He thought he was dying and was taken off in a wheel chair. I know it is horrible! But, I'm glad you had an imposed rest for your knee so that you could see for yourself the difference and can appreciate a new perspective!
 
Juniper, only just caught up with your thread. I hope your new do-nothing regime works, and I'm sure it will. Here are my 'rules'.

- If it hurts, don't do it.
- If your leg swells more or gets stiffer in the 24 hours after doing it, don't do it.
- If you won't die if it's not done, don't do it.
- Don't stand if you can sit; don't sit if you can lie down
 
Oh, I didn't even recognize your thread because of the name change!
Glad you are doing better and no more passing kidney stones for awhile. That's an order! :heehee:
 
How are you today after being at work?
I'm am getting seriously fed up of having a sore, hot knee. It seems never ending. :groan:
 
Nancy, I'm not terrible, not great. Whenever I do anything, it seems my knee swells. Just found out that insurance doesn't cover the lymphatic massage person I wanted to see. She advised me to see a PT who also does this type of massage. Not sure how easy that will be to arrange, but I'm determined to work it out. I can't imagine returning to teaching with the amount of energy I have, especially since it will be a new position in the school and everyone is expecting me (and my teaching partner) to make everything perfect. My knee is stiff and I think, swollen. I'm never sure what is actually going on. I hope your sore, hot knee feels better soon. J
 
I just went to a sports injury massage therapist. Here in the UK we pay for this but is not extortionate. Who knows if it's helping but it makes me feel better! She massages my leg muscles, concentrates on the knee a bit more now. She says she can feel scar tissue and is working to smooth that out!?
 
Hi Juniper...I responded to your post on another thread. I probably should have posted it here . I had my TKR one month after you did. If you are still experiencing pain and limitations at 6 mo. maybe you should go for a second opinion. The pain might be trying to tell you something. It is best to check it out. Hope this helps.
 
Juniper, I am glad that you found a pt that does lymphatic massage. I think it will help. K
 
I am finally feeling a bit of difference. Not every day, but most days. I am pushing myself to go up and down stairs using both legs. I haven't gone down stairs normally for five years, so this is a push. I'm slow but think the stretch is probably good because I feel like I am improving. I'm going to a former student's wedding tonight. Can't wait, I love weddings. Only staying for a bit. Bowed out of the reception because I don't think I can sit that long. And no dancing this wedding. My son, Jody, will be married in fall of 2013, so I have time to get ready for that. And Josh, the other son, no idea when his plan to marry is...maybe sooner. But I plan to dance.

I wish there was pain-meter. I'd love to be able to track my progress. I know it was much worse three months ago, but one month ago--not sure how I felt then...still feel tight bands when I walk, and sometimes I can tell it's swelling when I walk or stand, but I really do think there's been a shift. Hope all of you reading continue to be able to feel that often oh-so-subtle difference.
 
I am just trying to catch up with all the posts. Seems like I am reading them all, then I see there is a whole big thread that I missed. Anyway after reading about your kidney stone, had to tell you that my husband had not been sick except for needing a surgery in his nose. Then he had to have a parathyroid removed and that went well. A couple months after that he came home and this guy does not complain, and he sat in his chair and said he had a gut ache. He took some baking soda (I know ick) and still felt bad. I knew our $10,000 deductible had been met from his surgery so I asked him if he needed to go to ER and he said he didn't think so. He said it did hurt on his right side. So I insisted and we finally went to the ER. He said he will be embarrassed if he goes to the ER for a gut ache. Did blood work first, not appendix like we thought. So sent him for a CAT scan and I heard the doctor say loudly "13!!!!" he came back in the room by us and told my husband he had a 13 cm kidney stone and told him, "no way in hell are you going to pass that one". Turns out it was from the parathyroid producing too much calcium. So long and drawn out affair with several trips to a bigger hospital and finally a surgeon had to go up in him and blast it. He said he pee'd dust for several days. I can't believe he didn't have more pain like so many describe.
 
Debbie, glad your husband got it taken care of. I think you mean 13 mm. 13 cm would be like a tumor, but maybe I'm wrong. I don't think you could pass a 13 mm. stone either. My stone was tiny, only 4mm. So why so much pain in the beginning? I think because it got stuck high up on the ureter, and then, maybe because I drank so much water, maybe because of meds, maybe because it was small, there was never more than mild pain and some pressure. I was lucky, although the ER visit was pretty awful.

Now it's time to take care of my knee. You're getting your knee replaced this month, right? I'd read as many of Jo's messages, and the ones she suggests in the library. It has often been hard for me to believe them because they contradict so much of what I am told by PTs, by the surgeon, by his assistants. But when I follow Jo's advice, I am usually in less pain, and certainly less frustrated, less disgusted with myself and my "slow healing time." One reading has not been enough for me. Good luck with your surgery. And post if you want encouragement or support.
 
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