Inimeg, it's worth repeating that you are my hero! I am so happy to hear that you realize what a big thing you've undertaken, getting both hips done at once, and I hope that you have some inkling of how brave you are. I don't know for sure, but I think the recovery must be exponentially more challenging when both hips are involved. I'm doing A LOT of things on the unoperated leg, these days.
I understand about contorting your body, just to be able to function. I have to relearn how to stand, now that my legs are of equal length. Before, I would stand with most of my weight on the shorter leg while bending and turning the longer leg.
You're right -- it's not about the rate of progress. It's about the end result. We should have an online party a year from now, with you as the guest of honour (spelled with a "u" for Queenie's benefit).
Cheers and Bravo!
HHH