MarkK
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Hi Charley,
Others have said this, but I'll add my thoughts: First, you only have two hips. Your first surgery is likely to be healed pretty well after a total of six months, so you are at 90-95% of normal. You haven't said what the prognosis is on the other hip from your doctor, but assuming it is not good either, just steel yourself to getting the other one done. And I'm sorry to say, the sooner the better. I did my second hip much quicker than the other, I held my nose, put other thoughts out of my mind, and just did it, soon after my doctor showed me the offending x-ray. And while my first new hip healed well, two years ago, my second one healed faster than anyone had seen 6 months ago. My outside physical therapist was showing me off at the PT place to the other professionals. I heal well, but also waiting for so little time (once I knew the hip was toast) made the surgery easier and the recovery easier too. Just do it, then you'll be over this, and you'll be back to your old self, dancing away.
You look lovely in your avatar photo, with a very beautiful smile. I remember being your age, with starting a career, and people hooking up, some friends having kids, etc, and the anxiety which comes with this. Just be strong. These surgeries will make you physically strong, and you'll forget the pain and the limping, and you'll be yourself again. And getting through the adversity will give you a stronger mental outlook.
Good luck!!!!
Mark
Others have said this, but I'll add my thoughts: First, you only have two hips. Your first surgery is likely to be healed pretty well after a total of six months, so you are at 90-95% of normal. You haven't said what the prognosis is on the other hip from your doctor, but assuming it is not good either, just steel yourself to getting the other one done. And I'm sorry to say, the sooner the better. I did my second hip much quicker than the other, I held my nose, put other thoughts out of my mind, and just did it, soon after my doctor showed me the offending x-ray. And while my first new hip healed well, two years ago, my second one healed faster than anyone had seen 6 months ago. My outside physical therapist was showing me off at the PT place to the other professionals. I heal well, but also waiting for so little time (once I knew the hip was toast) made the surgery easier and the recovery easier too. Just do it, then you'll be over this, and you'll be back to your old self, dancing away.
You look lovely in your avatar photo, with a very beautiful smile. I remember being your age, with starting a career, and people hooking up, some friends having kids, etc, and the anxiety which comes with this. Just be strong. These surgeries will make you physically strong, and you'll forget the pain and the limping, and you'll be yourself again. And getting through the adversity will give you a stronger mental outlook.
Good luck!!!!
Mark