Hello
@catdemar
Your long wait will soon be over. Like me you use Bonesmart to the full. We are lucky. I am 7 weeks post op and would be concerned about you being alone after 6 days. Can your husband go back to work for just a few hours a day? Have you got someone else to be with you.
The problem is the unpredictability of all aspects e.g.. I had no issue with pain took my paracetamol every 4 hours which kept it under control BUT had extreme tiredness just slept, went to bathroom, slept, took medication, slept, had a little food and I went on with this for about 10 days. Well anyway you know the positives of recovery as well as the problems from Bonesmart.
Any way, thinking of your "control centre" in easy reach if you are on your own:
Medication, in easy reach, with note of what was taken when
Alarm clock to alert you to next medication due
Water to drink, prune juice and similar to try to avoid constipation,
Snacky type of food
Mobile phone handy( i found having a little light bag for it over the shoulder helpful then it is always with you in the critical days)
Laptop/TV/radio/DVDs or what ever you prefer plus remote controls
Tissues, moisturising cream, lip salve (my skin got very dry post op)
Work out how you will open the door to visitors, warn them that you might take a while to reach the door!
Your son might be shocked by it all, my little grandson was (aged 4). He kept wanting to make me better, wanting me to put an elastoplast on it and hated seeing me laying on the sofa. After 10 mins of asking, he was asking again "is it better now" At least your son is old enough to understand that you will be a lot better in a few days!
The first few weeks are demanding but you really do turn little corners and it is very encouraging when you achieve little things and big things like At week seven, the week one and week two experiences really are history and the rewards are great!
I was so so scared. I describe myself as having a hospital phobia. Amazingly I got through it all as will you. I thought I would be nearly back to normal after 2 weeks, crazy idea! I got very tearful post op which could be a reaction to general anaesthetic or to the feeling of vulnerability or not being in control BUT it is "do-able" and that time of early recovery which is complex physically and emotionally does not last long. At 7 weeks post I am just about to go for a walk along the sea front, very windy and sunny, but it is such a relief to do something "normal" again.
I just want yours to be over and done with as all this waiting is not good, other than to prepare practical things.
Karen