I had tremendous breathtaking pain when I got home. I called the on-call anesthesia line and the nurse line several times in those early days. I was close to calling an ambulance at one point.
In hindsight, I wish I'd started with a much higher dose of oxycodone and tapered down from there. My instructions for pain meds were rather nebulous, and I was left to kind of figure it out myself once I was at home. And
then the inflammation really started. I can say I got to a 10 on the pain scale. It literally took my breath away. (In a way I'm kind of proud that I got to a 10 on the pain scale. Not everyone gets to do that.
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Yes, icing was a tremendous help. I iced my knees like a couple of frozen hams.
Other folks on the forum told me loud and clear to get on a med schedule and stick to it even if you aren't feeling pain at med time. I found a great app that reminds me every 6 hours and that's helped a ton.
The first week I felt helpless. Nothing was working for me. It was a constant struggle. I'm a side sleeper and sleeping on my back is horrible... But then I get sleepy enough that I fall asleep eventually...
I'm starting to think that the first week is just that way. But then you get to the second week and you have better coping skills.
Communicate with your medical team. Advocate for yourself. Organize and schedule your meds. Try to keep the ice going during this inflammatory phase. Lay flat and get your legs up.
Try to distract yourself with writing a letter or lurking around this incredible forum.
Reading and rereading articles here and getting sound, caring advice from the incredible moderators is priceless.
You'll be ok. Hang in there!