Good Morning,
Of course you're going to be okay. Remember, no two recoveries are alike, even with the same person.
It's unfortunate when your first was better than your second is playing out, because then there is the temptation to compare, which is normal but can cause disappointment. You are only 11 days post op. You're in the infancy of your recovery. You are also still in recovery with your first THR, not even eight weeks out.
With two major surgeries, only 6 weeks apart, it doesn't seem questionable to me that you're moving slowly.
I believe you'll get that reassurance tomorrow at your post op visit.
Keep the Activity Progression for THR in mind as a rough guideline BUT don't lose sight of the fact that your latest surgery is slowing your original recovery a bit, which is understandable.
While the Depends are an inconvenience, possibly once your more mobile you can ditch them. Or, downgrade to a bladder leakage protection pad if it's only urge incontinence.
Wondering when you had your fall if you caught yourself with the arm that's bothering you? Well, I guess you'll get answers tomorrow.
Hugs and best of luck with your appt. Let us know how it goes.
@Tennessee1