Things I found most useful in hospital/rehab: hairbrush, lip balm, hand & face lotion, scented hand sanitizer, face wipes, larger wipes for cleaning body, waterless shampoo caps, shorts, loose tee shirts, comfy stretch bra, crocs, stretchy gowns, case for glasses. I also brought my own supply of pain meds just in case (came in handy when I had trouble getting them on time), gas and heartburn meds, etc. I had no interest in makeup, just wanted to be comfortable and able to clean up a little bit without help. Couldn't read or listen to music without falling asleep so no need for those.
At home - lots of pillows, power recliner, wrap-around ice packs. I never used leg lifter and didn't need grabber after I got home or any other dressing aid as I was able to bend and pick things up and get my socks and pants & all on without much trouble. Could NOT have managed without the toilet riser and shower seat. After second week, didn't need walker, using cane. I also had some small steps that I had purchased and was using before surgery (about 3-4 inches) to help get into/out of large step into house. Those came in handy. I have a very high bed and I'm still using one of the steps to help me get into bed. Don't be tempted by those stick-on grab bars for shower - mine fell off the first time I tried to use it. I manage by hanging on to towel bar and then using cane to help me get out of the shower.
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