Hi Gill. I am sorry to hear that you have continuing pain. I have had bouts of pain, and in my case it turned out ok once I stopped overdoing it and the bits I had irritated had a chance to settle down. This took several weeks but all was well in the end. I hope the same is true for you. But if you can get to see the consultant, hopefully that will set your mind at ease, or let you know if any treatment is required.
It may reassure you to know that with my first hip, I couldn’t do stairs foot over foot until about 12 weeks into recovery. The ability just came when it was ready. To be honest, the ability to do it going downstairs has gone away again at times since then, but that is due to a knee problem.
I also had numbness around the incision with both hips, which are both posterior approach. It was quite noticeable at first and I was worried with the first hip, but it was explained that the operation involved cutting small surface nerves which take a while to knit back together. With both hips, the numbness reduced steadily over time. I stopped noticing it after a few months, except when someone mentions it on here and then I check for it. It doesn’t bother me at all. The right hip still has a small patch and the left hip still has a teensy bit even after 3 and a half years, but I have to really search for it to find it. Similarly I have to work hard to find the left scar, which is just about invisible.