I agree that autoimmune does get you down---fatigue is a constant with all auto immunes. However, I still see folks and still do lots of playing too. I ski every day in the winter and the other seasons I go to a local gym.
One thing for me is that I have left cities behind forever--too tiring---the noise, the hoopla. I live in a little town (5000) people in Montana. It is beautiful here and much slower paced. I live my life outdoors and don't worry about clothing or brands. I recently sat next to a woman with a Versace purse--a real one. I told her I had never seen one except on Sex in the City. I told her that every purse that I like is over $100 and so, I use a messanger bag that I got at Salvation Army for $3.
She told me then that her purse cost $2000!!!! I could not believe it!!! Here in Montana there are lots of kids who do not get enough to eat---I could not carry a bag like that and live with myself. I volunteer a lot---I teach lots of folks to ski for free---I look at my face in the mirror and I am happy with myself. In the city it seems more important to find a way to impress people. In a small town, it is not worth the effort since we all pretty much know one another!!
My local gym costs $30 a month has a warm pool and a regular pool. When I go to water aerobics, I know most of the people there. This is the life for me---easy and slow paced.