Ouch! Hello again
@Lizzie Pearson - I see you have discovered that standing still without your knee hurting and stiffening afterwards is an accomplishment that comes with time. In fact quite a lot of time in my case. I kept doing it - but always knew that creeping stiffness and some swelling would be the result. But looking on the bright side, every week your knee is getting stronger and each time you will be able to stand still for that little bit longer before you get major repercussions.
Can you not sit while ironing? I admit I hate to do that, but even if you did it for small easy to iron bits it would save the weight bearing time. I also found that shopping is not the best knee-shaped activity (boo!) Just when I most needed some retail therapy, I discovered and was told by my PT that shopping is not great as you are continually stop-starting. Huh! Nothing stops this lady from shopping, so I used to set the timer on my phone initially for 45 mins, and then fell in my daughters car and faced the consequences with my knee.
Much as I am one that follows the 'if it feels good, do it' brigade - I must admit that your theatre plans sound a wee bit ambitious. Have you sat for that long with your foot down and not iced yet? If not, then I would err on the side of caution and wait until you
know that you will be able to cope. Any one of those things alone could make you very uncomfortable at this stage, and if you put them all together your evening will probably be an endurance marathon rather than a fun evening out. I hate being the voice of doom, but a bad experience could set you back several days and knock your confidence.
Small achievable goals were the ones I set for myself - ones that if I had been a tad over ambitious, wouldn't make me think 'never again'.
Its hard, but you need to be SO patient - but you WILL get there. Every day in every way you are getting better and better.
My daughter's just booked us a Christmas shopping weekend to Exeter in November. I am now confident that I can not only do it, but also do it and enjoy it. Everything comes to she who waits .......
Take care, remember its a marathon, not a sprint.
XXX