@pkraug2020 and
@Muldoh ... Thank you so much for your kind messages! I’m six months post op today, and overall, I’m doing very well. My new knee and I have become quite good friends. I’m taking a nice, long walk every morning with our puppy, and I’m averaging around 8000 steps a day...with no ill effects. The tight band feeling is still occasionally present, but it’s very faint and really no bother. For the most part, I’m going up and down stairs like a grownup, but the down stairs part can still be uncomfortable. I know that will improve with time!
I’m at the point now when I can go for long periods of time without thinking about my knee, but every now and then, it will remind me that it’s still healing, and I’ll have a little soreness, stiffness, or tenderness. I struggled so much with the emotional aspect of this surgery and recovery....and maybe I’m most happy to have that part behind me.
A couple of former high school classmates had surgery shortly after mine, and they reported torturous PT sessions, always with the “no pain, no gain” mindset. My OS is very much aligned with the Bonesmart philosophy, and while I trusted him, I still worried that without aggressive PT, my recovery wouldn’t be complete (I was wrong about that, of course).
During the first 6-8 weeks, I was more focused on what I couldn’t do than on any progress I’d made. The novelty of recovery gave way to the reality, and I became so discouraged. But now, at the six-month mark, I’m so happy to report that I’ve made great progress...and you will, too. I’ve learned that my knee will tell me what it needs. It’s ok to ask for help when you need it. Everyone’s recovery is unique to them. It can be demoralizing to compare your progress with that of anyone else. The only people who truly understand what you’re experiencing are those who have had this surgery themselves...so Bonesmart is a great support tool!
Patience, while not easy, will so often be necessary...and will yield positive results along the way. And here’s a little pet peeve (silly, I know). When I told people about my surgery, so many wished me a “speedy recovery.” I know those comments came from a kind place. But there’s nothing speedy about this recovery, and I think the people pleasing aspect of my personality felt like I wasn’t doing enough, then, to speed the process along. Crazy, right? But it taught me to wish others a
successful recovery (instead of speedy), and that’s what I wish for all of my Bonesmart friends!