Mo, I am brand new here and have not even posted an introduction yet, but I wanted to ask if you already have or suggest a consult with the Ortho dept at Massachusetts General Hospital? I had a "unique" THR done on a radiated and partially removed bone and they have always treated me with compassion during the last 7 years I have been their patient. I will post my full history as soon as I can. Last month, 5 years after my THR, I developed a staph infection (most likely acquired through an open cut but we aren't sure). I am currently recovering from the I & D which was my third surgery since 2004 in the pelvic and hip region. It will be a long time before I know if this infection is going to stay away but so far only trust the surgeons at MGH.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. My own situation has made me feel very alone and down. Trying to stay positive with so much uncertainty ahead of me.
PS - I, too, had surprise twins 3 years after my THR. They are now 2.5.