@muckingabout
I think you should really listen to
@Jaycey who has much more experience and met many more people who have undergone this type of surgery.
I know that the one thing you have to think about is safety. And also, like
@Jaycey says, she was climbing staira right away where I couldn't have done that. Different people. Different bodies. Different places BEFORE surgery. There are many variables. The one thing I feel badly for is that you are worried about so many things that haven't happened. And while worrying is natural (of course!!), in a way you are anxious about things that are not there. So it's like worrying about them twice.
I know this will sound trite but it really works for me. Get one of those silly yoga/meditation tapes you see at the endcaps at the big stores like target/walmart/kmart/whereever....and play them softly. They kind of put my mood in a more relaxed place. The worry is still there but the sounds are soothing.
And like I said before, you were SMART EMOUGH TO COME TO THIS SITE SO THAT PUTS YOU MILES AHEAD OF THE POOR SOUL WHO DIDN'T!
I know you will worry but look around this site and notice how different everyone's experience has been.
And when I awoke after surgery that one deep, burning, never-goes-away, makes-your-leg-so-weak pain was gone. The post operative pain was there but thats where you have to jump in any follow the advice of your OS and PT.
I can't say enough how smart enough you are to be right here at BoneSmart