So true, Jamie!!! I recall for Mothers Day, just under 3 weeks post surgery my D-I-L calling and asking if I wanted to go bowling and out for dinner or desert for Mother's Day. I was shocked!!! I told her, "Honey, I just had major surgery. I would love to, but I cannot!" What I wound up having was three of my kids shopping for and preparing a wonderful meal for me, served in the dining room on the fine dishes, and I came to the table long enough to eat and visit for a short while and returned to the sofa and iced and elevated my knee. Honestly that was about as much as I could handle at that time.