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@old grey mare @Dmcfad2 LOL. I am so lucky to have a hubby who knows his way around the house :) In fact, I was saying at the Dr appt yesterday that we really haven't needed the meals ppl from church have been bringing by because hubby always does the cooking. Joked that we better freeze and save them for when he has his knee done or we'll be eating frozen pizza for weeks on my watch! I know, how can someone have kids in their 20s and not know how to cook - I know how, just don't like it and he loves it, so I'm the clean-up team (or will be again soon I hope).

Had two naps - appx 7 hrs total - today on my side. Can easily get rolled that way - just scared to roll back, so have to be sure hubby's nearby to help if I can't get comfy. Sometimes it just doesn't feel good and so far, for some weird reason, I can only do it during daylight hours.

Lot of itching around the incision since yesterday - that's a sign of continued healing (or maybe a reaction to new adhesive - eek!). Hope not. I'm still tired and have another headache - hope it's only because I overdid yesterday. Cheers!


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Just a quick comment on side sleeping @moms4tne and @old grey mare .....
I still put a soft large King pillow between my legs every night.
Only at the 5th week (!) was I comfortable enough with getting onto my side that I felt like
I wouldn't hurt anything.
You will get there....
 
@MajorHeidi Oh yes, a pillow between the legs (I use a King, too) is a must - but I've been doing that for years now anyway to help prevent involuntarily movement (and excruciating pain) once my hip started to go bad. They say it's better for your back anyway.


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Sounds like you're doing well @moms4tne :) I'm finding that the extreme tiredness comes on after trips out and exercise, too. I walked about 300m/yds this evening on top of my exercises, and I was then too tired to climb the stairs to bed for more than an hour! When I finally dragged myself out of my chair, I was clumsy with tiredness and I dropped my phone, spilled my milk and then dropped my stick, and had to be rescued by my son! I'm now tucked up safe and sound with my legs up... Oh how I wish I felt comfortable on my side!
 
@FionaW Glad to hear that I'm not the only one feeling so tired. Guess until yesterday I hadn't really done that much! I was worried maybe I was getting sick. Don't worry about the side sleeping - it'll come. I find it's easier to roll onto my side if I sorta prop myself up on my elbows, and start with my knees bent together about 4-5" off the mattress and the pillow already positioned between my knees and down to my feet. Then I just roll in one motion. Once I'm over, the little bit of adjusting I have to do to get comfy doesn't hurt. The trouble is getting back onto my back - I can't figure out how to roll and lift my legs without twisting, so hubby reaches across me from behind and grasps my knees on the bottom (unoperated) knee and sorta unwinds me while I keep up with my upper body. When I can finally do this alone, I will feel like I've got my sleeping back to normal. In 2 wks I've learnt to sleep on my back out of desperation, but it's for sure never going to be my favourite.


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Six week post-op checkup - I'm doing good. No more restrictions. I'm back again for a follow up on Aug 26. Here's my pre and post-op X-rays. (The flash reminds me of a "Ta-da!").
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Walked with a cane this morning - "shuffling" a bit, though. Not sure if I'm being overly cautious, or just not quite ready. How can I tell?
 
I stayed on one crutch until I felt absolutely confident, had a good gait with no limp.....then I progressed to the cane.....hope all goes...trial & error really...you will know when your body is ready to progress...Chrissie x


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Thanks @Hoppy Nanny: So I should just keep practicing, I guess, until it feels more "normal"? I am also experiencing some knee pain - ever since the PT had me do some shallow squats at the kitchen sink 10 days ago. Not sure, but I may have arthritis in my knees - they've bothered me since my thirties - but wondering whether it could also be attributed to walking differently now that the hip is fixed?
 
hi @moms4tne.....definitely keep practicing...honestly you will know when it feels more like "normal"....... It does seem to take forever....it was 5 months before I could Ditch the elbow crutch.....but well worth the wait....I know...you want to be normal now! So did I!! As for knee pain....That has been the biggest problem for me as I've never had knee pain before but have it since op.....have been assured it will go....they say it's a combination of what happens during surgery and bad gait before op....here's hoping!! Hope yours feels better soon. Cheers Chrissie xxx


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@moms4tne .... I have deleted the post you requested.

I would like to apologize for the fact that no one answered your concerns!!! That is normally not the way we do things here on BoneSmart. Your post was somehow overlooked by ALL of the staff! Should that happen to you in the future and you don't receive a timely answer to a concern, please PM one or more of the staff members to alert us. We truly want to be on top of each member's questions at all times!!
 
Hello to @moms4tne ... I am about 14 months since my first hip replacement and don't get back to bonesmart too often, but wish I could more often. It was a huge help to me and a wonderful place, as you know. I made a mental note of you when I saw something you wrote on someone else's thread a while ago and wanted to tell you how much I concur. You said this:

... we tend to underestimate how much energy and movement goes into "normal" household tasks - even just standing for an extended period of time. ...

Now is not the time to busy ourselves with normal things like housework, childcare, weight loss exercising, and training for sporting events. This is a time to focus on healing for the long term - not just getting a quick fix so we can put the whole ordeal behind us and get on with life

The underlined part especially is something I agree with. I got that notion in my head from HERE, from reading Josephine's article about activity levels. In it, she says things like "make dinner, BUT then let someone else clean up or leave the clean up for later." You can't do both. And I especially felt that way during the first few weeks, when just showering and getting dressed "took it out of me" and I'd have to sit and rest. Or making several trips to the kitchen (because I wasn't smart enough to have a basket on my walker) would tire me out. Yet ... so many people do not get it when I have mentioned that all activity "counts" and you need to moderate PT or other "exercise" with the day to day activities. PTs especially in my experience didn't get it. As time went on, and I got stronger and better, I still have tried to "count" all activities, even the day to day ones, when figuring out how much is going to be too much, so I don't overdo it.

Congratulations on reaching that wonderful six-week milestone. I remember at six weeks I started back to work full time, and I did need the cane for peace of mind and for some stability. I tapered off a little later to using it only on the city streets. Then stopped using it when it felt like it was getting in the way. And from six weeks onward, I too got some knee pain that concerned me. It happened with inclines and walking on gravelly paths. So I just stopped doing that. And then the knee pain let up later. I think for many and maybe most of us there are still going to be ups and downs for months afterward, even a year, though over time more good days than bad.

I guess what I am trying to say is that for many/most of us the recovery process rolls along and gets better but not without little things here and there that give us pause. It's not like getting back into shape from lack of exercise. It's a whole different animal altogether and with it's own time table and fits and starts. Best of luck to you!
 
Moms - my PT had me walking slowly and focusing with operated leg on exaggerating my step. So step forward, place heal down and roll whole foot down through the step so end up on the toe. It seems to help get the gait perfect when you focus on really making a deliberate and complete movement. Glad you're doing well - keep up the great work!


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@Jamie Thank you. One thing I did figure out along the way - it took a while and you guys might not be aware - but the "tagging" feature doesn't work when someone is using a mobile app, at least not the iPhone/iPad mobile app. So that was part of the problem with that one post in particular (and another I deleted myself earlier on) - I typically visit BoneSmart on my iPhone or iPad and wasn't tagging, knowing it doesn't work. @Peaches I agree with you 100% - especially when someone has been doing all those things prior to surgery (I was at a point that I couldn't anymore), I think it's difficult to realize it now "counts". I expected my recovery to go slowly because of how little I was able to do for about 9 months prior to surgery . . . I credit my chiropractor with my even being on my feet towards the end, and I saw people in my pre-op class in wheelchairs. It's all about listening to your body - when I've been too tired after PT, I don't do anything for a few days. In the end it won't matter if that pushes me back a week or so, it's about the bigger picture. I went through all this to get my life back, and if I have to wait a bit to re-start it 100%, that's okay. Perspective :) @frieds That's a very good idea - I was doing that at first on crutches, but it seems each time you transition, you have to remind yourself again. I've been practicing today, and it's amazing how quickly you feel stronger! Funny how much focus it takes just to regain the proper mechanics of something that was always second nature. I realized the other day, getting up out of the chair, that I have to remind myself to actually push up into a full height standing position, rather than hunching over like I used to so as not to hurt the hip. It feels glorious to stand straight and tall again, with both feet flat on the floor and no twisting torso. That alone, for me, was the miracle I most wanted!! :yes!: Pain-free is the icing on the cake!
 
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I am three weeks out and using a cane. However, every day I go to the local shopping mall where there is wide open space and smooth floors and practice walking with my walker. I don't put much weight on the walker; it is there for stability and to keep others away from me or knocking me down. As I walk I concentrate on standing up straight, putting equal weight on my legs, walking heel to toe and bending my knee with each step. It's a lot to think about! I have gained a lot of strength by doing this and it really helps to learn new patterns when walking. I am rehabbing a knee and hip so I really need this to improve my gait.
 
Wow, just went back and re-read my early post-op posts . . . LOL! Funny and pathetic at the same time, but I was on drugs after all! Amazing the change in such a relatively short amount of time. Encouraging.
 
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