
We’ve all done this, too, for various reasons.
I had a ODIC weekend when I was 4 months post op. We went away for the weekend to visit friends. The morning we were supposed to go I remembered the standard low toilets in their house. I debated canceling, but it was the last minute and we hadn’t been to see them in a while, and I thought, how bad can it be.
Well it was very bad! This may be TMI, but there was nothing nearby in their bathroom to help me get up, I even tried putting my suitcase nearby to lean on to push up from, but couldn’t get it close enough. (The toilet was in an alcove.) It was better than nothing, but I struggled all weekend and I’m still amazed I managed to get up and down.
By the time I got home I could hardly bend my knee. It took a month to to recover. A month!!!
Then, at that point, my son got married, 90 minutes away from where I lived. 3 days of wedding activities, long drives every day, too much standing and lack of ability to elevate. My leg got tight and swelled again, and since I was just coming out of a major setback, this new one set me back, again, for another month.
I had been reading Bonesmart since 4 weeks post op, but hadn’t joined. I finally decided it was time to join.
It took a really long time for my whole leg to recover these 2 major setbacks. I debated looking into a massage therapist, but with my PT PTSD, I couldn’t bear to let anyone touch my leg. I managed and eventually my leg relaxed and settled down and my ROM and quad strength is fine now.
Oh, and right after I got home from the weekend at our friend’s house I bought a portable seat riser so I would never go through that again! I made a denim tote to carry it in, and on the occasions I took it with me, no one ever asked what was in my tote.